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Fellow Truthseekers:
I hope this finds you well, in good spirit and having a good day.
Understanding that the hour is very late and that the world is growing darker by the day if not by the hour, there needs to be a fundamental shift in the focus of this group/website, to better serve its visitors. Please see the passages below that have motivated this decision.
Ecclesiastes 3:1-8
3:1 To every [thing there is] a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:
3:2 A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up [that which is] planted;
3:3 A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;
3:4 A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
3:5 A time to cast stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
3:6 A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;
3:7 A time to tear, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
3:8 A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace.
There is a time for everything, and the time for becoming one flesh (Genesis 2:24) and for having children, has come to an end for those who are spiritually awake and striving to draw closer to God (James 4:8) while there is still time.
These are the marriage preparations that we should be making now:
2 Corinthians 11:2 For I am jealous over you with Godly jealousy: for I have espoused you to one husband, that I may present [you as] a chaste virgin to Christ.
Revelation 19:7 Let us be glad and rejoice, and give honour to Him: for the Marriage of the Lamb is come, and His “Wife” (Israel – the 144,000) hath made herself ready.
There are very stern warnings from Christ that we would do well to heed while preparing ourselves for the Marriage of the Lamb (e.g. Matthew 10:34-38; 24:19; 24:37-39).
Please join us on this glorious journey described in greater detail in the little book entitled The Way home or face The Fire by JAH.
May God be with you every step of The Way.

What Is A Spiritually Feminine Lady?

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Girl with prayer book

This covering is outward sign of an inward spiritual change with-in the human+Being.

1 Corinthians 11:10 For this cause ought the woman to have a covering on her head, as a sign that she is under the power of her husband because of the angels.

11:11 Nevertheless neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without man, in the Lord.

11:12 For as the woman [is] of the man, even so [is] the man also by the woman; but all things by God.

11:13 Judge in yourselves: is it comely that a woman pray unto God uncovered?

11:14 Doth not even nature itself teach you, that, if a man have long hair, it is a shame unto him?

11:15 But if a woman have long hair, it is a glory to her: for [her] hair is given her for a covering.

Guidance from The Lord below:

Please see  verse 11:10 where it says … have a covering on her head and Verse 11:15 where it says…her hair is given her for a covering…are two different things.

How can a woman’s long hair be “on her head”? A woman is to have a covering on her head and long hair…

A woman is to have a covering on her head, such as a scarf or hat.

You may not know it but you are a Spirit-Beings in a female body meant to learn from other spirit-Beings in male bodies, who are devoted to following Christ Leadership, Who is led by Father (God) – see 1 Corinthians 11:3– to reverse the fall of Adam.

Come on Ladies let’s work together becoming what God designed us to be, a spiritually feminine lady, a gift beyond measure, worth fighting for, leading to a Life filled with true happiness and lasting Joy. This book also made a big impact on my life revealing spiritual insights that create a Godly marriage,  How To Attract a Real Man, ‘A must read for any woman who keeps attracting bad relationships’ please see book page for more details.
https://womenstruelib.com/downloads/how_to_attract_a_real_man/”
1 Corinthians 11:3 – CONFIRMATION that WOMEN’s LIBERATION is PROHIBITED. But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman [is] the man; and the head of Christ [is] God. 11:7 For a man indeed ought not to cover [his] head, forasmuch as he is the image and glory of God: but the woman is the glory of the man.

3:121 A REAL lady (spiritual-qualities, NOT money, or titles) has already learned special qualities, that are preparing her to become a man, in a later lifetime. She has grace and elegance, WITHOUT arrogance; is 100% feminine (soft; warm; affectionate and loving); is self-sacrificing and humble, towards her loved-ones and people in general; is modest about her body, and does not exhibit her nakedness to anyone, except her husband; is a virgin when she gets married, saving her charms, unspoiled, for the man she loves (a woman, almost always, falls in love with, and never forgets, the man to whom she gives her virginity)(lst. Timothy 2:15).

3:143 That is why a woman should love; honour; cherish and OBEY her husband (unless he is trying to get her to do wrong), through good and bad times (and not leave a sinking-ship – but help with the bailing-out), until death, and learn from him, and help and encourage him to be good.

Ladies next!
13:89 Come on you silent FEMININE majority, speak-up, and help your man to put things right.
Say that you want to be treated like LADIES, with love and respect, and courtesy. Tell your manly,
liberated sisters, that you do NOT AGREE with them, and to stop spoiling everything for you, and,
thereby, make them back-down.

Christ Personal Bible The King of kings’ Bible , and  The Way home or face The Fire ,  The ONLY Survival Plan for Mankind helps.

Thank-you.

How To Create Healthy Boundaries

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“An intimate relationship is one in which neither party silences, sacrifices, or betrays the self truth and each party expresses strength and vulnerability honor, weakness quiet confidence (Isa. 30:15) and competence in a balanced way1.” ~Harriet Lerner

1Note: The above sentence wreaked of cognitive dissonance (double-mindedness – James 1:8) the way it was previously written.

This article was corrected in accordance with what the Bible teaches. Please see the book of Thomas for more in-depth guidance on overcoming “self”.

https://jahtruth.net/kofk-free/49thom.htm

Setting spiritual goals is essential if we want to be both physically and emotionally healthy. Creating a healthy spirit is empowering. By recognizing the need to set and enforce limits spiritual goals, you protect against your “self”, maintain sanity, and enjoy healthy relationships.

Unhealthy boundaries cause emotional pain that can lead to dependency, depression, anxiety, and even stress-induced physical illness2. A lack of spiritual training is like leaving the door to your home unlocked: anyone, including unwelcome guests, can enter at will (Matt. 24:43).

2Trying to remember all of the made-up boundaries/lies to keep the ego inflated.

On the other hand, having too high of an opinion of one’s self can lead to isolation, like living in a locked-up castle surrounded by a mote. No one can get in, and you can’t get out3.

3Being full of one’s “self” leaves no room for the truth to get in, which is the only thing that can set us free.

What Are Boundaries?

Boundaries are barriers, rules or limits that a person creates to identify for their “selves” what they prejudge to be safe and permissible ways for other people to behave around them and how their “self” will respond when someone steps outside those limits. (outofthefog.net)

The easiest way to think about a boundary is a property line. We have all seen “No Trespassing” signs, which send a clear message that if you violate that boundary, there will be a consequence (Mark 12:31). This type of boundary is easy to picture and understand because you can see the sign and the border it protects. Personal “self” boundaries can be harder to define because the lines are invisible, can change, and are unique to each individual “self” (Deut. 12:8). Personal boundaries, just like the “No Trespassing” sign, define where your “self” ends and others begin and are determined by the amount of physical and emotional space your “self” allow between yourself and others. Personal “self” boundaries control you and decide what types of communication, behavior, and interaction are acceptable to it4.

4Anything that reinforces its illusions and “self” deceptions.

Why is it important for the “self” to set boundaries (Rom. 8:5-8)?

•To practice self promotion and self defense

•To communicate its selfish needs in a relationship

•To make time and space for itself (Gal. 2:20)

•To set limits in a relationship in a way that is “self”-centered

Physical Boundaries

Physical boundaries provide a barrier between your “self” and what it perceives to be an intruding force, like a Band-Aid protects a wound from abrasion. Physical boundaries include control over your body, its sense of personal space, its sexual orientation, and privacy (1 Cor. 9:27). These boundaries are expressed through clothing, shelter, noise tolerance, verbal restraint, and controlling body language. An example of physical “self” boundary violation: a truth talker. Its immediate and automatic reaction is to step back in order to reset its personal space. By doing this, it sends a non-verbal message that when this person comes too close to the truth it feels an invasion of its personal space5. If the truth continues to move closer, it might verbally protect its boundary by telling him/her to stop sharing the truth with you.

5The “self” is constantly trying to reinflate itself, to take up all of its personal space.

Other examples of physical boundary invasions by the ego/“self” are:

•Inappropriate touching, such as unwanted sexual advances.

•Looking through others’ personal files and emails.

•Not allowing others their personal space. (e.g., barging into your boss’s office without knocking)

Emotional and Intellectual Boundaries

These boundaries protect your ego’s sense of “self” importance and its ability to separate your from others (Luke 9:23).

When you have weak emotional boundaries, it’s like getting caught in the midst of a hurricane with no protection from your “self”. It exposes itself by being greatly affected by others’ words, thoughts, and actions and ends up feeling bruised, wounded, and battered6.

6Self-pity is a powerful dark emotion.

These include beliefs, behaviors, choices, sense of responsibility, and your ability to be intimate (truthful) with others (Matt. 16:27). Examples of emotional and intellectual boundary invasions are:

•Not knowing how to separate your feelings from your ego’s emotions and allowing his/her mood to dictate your level of happiness or sadness (a.k.a. codependency – Thom. 1:6-8).

•Sacrificing your plans, dreams, and goals in order to please it (the ego/”self”).

•Not taking responsibility for yourself and blaming others for your problems.

Barriers to Boundary Setting

It seems obvious that no one would want their boundaries violated by their “self”. So why do we allow it? Why do we NOT enforce or uphold our boundaries?

•FEAR of rejection and, ultimately, abandonment.

•FEAR of confrontation.

•GUILT.

•We were not taught healthy spiritual boundaries.

•Safety Concerns

Assess the current state of your(?) boundaries

HEALTHY BOUNDARIES allow you to:

• Control self importance and self discipline.

•Share information gradually, on a need to know basis, in a mutually sharing and trusting relationship.

•Protect physical and emotional space from intrusion by the “self”.

•Have healthy relationship where responsibility and power are constantly maintained by the spirit-Being over the “self”.

•Be certain before speaking. Confidently and truthfully say “yes” or “no” and be okay when others say “no” to you (Matt. 5:37).

•Separate your needs, thoughts, feelings, and desires from your “self”. Recognize that your boundaries and needs are different from its.

•Empower your true, spiritual self to make healthy choices and take responsibility for yourself. If you are dealing with someone who is physically dangerous or threatening to you, it may not be safe to attempt to set explicit boundaries with them. If you are in this situation, it can be helpful to work with a THE Counselor, Therapist and Advocate (1 John 2:1) to create a safety plan and boundary setting may be a part of this.

UNHEALTHY BOUNDARIES are characterized by the “self”:

•Sharing too much too soon or, at the other end of the spectrum, closing you off so it can express its need and wants.

•Feeling responsible for its happiness at the expense of others.

•Inability to say “no” for fear of rejection or abandonment.

•Inflicting its weak sense of your own identity. Deceiving you into basing how you feel about yourself on how others treat you, instead of on doing Father’s Will (Matt. 6:10).

•Disempowerment. You allow others to make decisions for you (including your “self”); consequently, you feel powerless and do not take responsibility for your own life and actions.

Tips for Setting Healthy Boundaries (Modified from the book, Boundaries: Where You End and I Begin by Anne Katherine)

When you identify the need to set a boundary, do it clearly, calmly, firmly, respectfully, and in as few words as possible, with no thought of “self”. Do not justify, get angry, or apologize for the boundary you are setting if you KNOW it’s Father’s Will. You are not responsible for the other person’s reaction to the spiritual boundary you are setting. You are only responsible for communicating your boundary in a respectful manner. If it upset them, know it is their problem.

Some people, especially those accustomed to controlling, abusing, or manipulating you, might test you. Plan on it, expect it, but remain firm. Remember, your behavior must match the boundaries you are setting. You cannot successfully establish a clear spiritual boundary if you send mixed messages by apologizing. At first, you will probably feel selfish, guilty, or embarrassed when you set a spiritual boundary. Do it anyway and remind yourself you have a right to care what’s best for all concerned. Setting spiritual boundaries takes practice and determination.

Don’t let anxiety, fear or guilt prevent you from taking care of your “self” and keeping it in line. When you feel its anger or resentment or find your “self” whining or complaining, you need to set a spiritual boundary for it (James 1:19). Listen to your inner, spiritual self, determine what you need to do or say, then communicate concisely. Learning to set healthy boundaries takes time. It is a process. Set them in your own time frame, not when someone else (or your “self”) tells you. Develop a support system of people who respect your right to set spiritual boundaries. Eliminate toxic persons from your life—those who want to manipulate, abuse, and control you (2 Cor. 6:14-16).

 

 

 

 

A Beautiful Woman

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A Woman with a beautiful body is good for a night, but a Woman with a beautiful mind is good for a lifetime.

Woman in forest

 

“Your body is sacred (1 Cor.3:16-17). You’re far more precious than diamonds and pearls (Matt.10:30-31, 16:26), and you should cover all the precious God given gifts” for safe keeping until the proper time (Matt. 25:1-13, 1 Peter 3:1-6).

Question: Have you had these kinds of conversations with your daughter; your sister; your mom; or your best female friend? Every other message, on this topic, that she will get throughout her day will say the opposite. The examples in the world are a total DISGRACE. They leave nothing to the imagination. She needs your voice to speak the truth; wisdom; guidance and discretion into her life.

Brigitte Bardot the beautiful French actress said, “The imagination is the most erogenous zone.”

Please take your time to read this.

Two young women arrived at a meeting wearing clothes that were quite revealing. The chairman took a good look at them and asked them to take a seat. Then he said something that they might never forget in their life. He looked at them eye to eye and said; “Ladies, everything valuable that God made in this world is well covered and hard to find, or get, and you should be no exception.

1. Where do you find DIAMONDS? Diamonds are down in the ground, covered and protected.

2. Where do you find PEARLS? Pearls are deep down at the bottom of the ocean, covered up and protected inside a beautiful shell.

3. Where do you find GOLD? Way down in the mine, covered and protected with layers of rocks and hard to get them. You need to work hard and dig deep down to get them.” He looked at them with serious eyes and said; “Your body is sacred, valuable and unique. You are far more precious than DIAMOND, PEARL or GOLD, and your body should be covered too.“

So he added that, “If you keep your treasured mineral just like DIAMOND, PEARL and GOLD deeply covered up, a reputable mining company with the requisite machinery will come down and conduct years of extensive exploration. First they will contact your government (dad/family), sign a professional contract (wedding), and mine you professionally (lawful marriage). But if you leave your precious minerals uncovered on the surface of the earth, you always attract unlawful miners (thieves) to come and mine you unlawfully. Everybody will just use their crude instrument and dig into you freely, just like that. Keep your precious minerals (body) deeply covered so that it invites professional (lawful) miners to chase and explore you.”

Let’s all encourage our wives, daughters and friends to dress well, with modesty and decency. Credit to the original owner (John 3:35, Heb. 1:1-2). Exodus 8:19. Open not thine heart to every man, lest he requite thee with a shrewd turn. 9:1. Be not jealous over the wife of thy bosom, and teach her not an evil lesson against thyself. 9:2. Give not thy soul unto a woman to set her foot upon thy substance (1st Commandment). 9:3. Meet not with an harlot, lest thou fall into her snares. 9:8. Turn away thine eye from a beautiful woman, and look not upon an-other’s beauty; for many have been deceived by the beauty of a woman; for herewith love is kindled as a fire (Samson).

Our human eyes will deceive us, our spirit-Being is to lead us (Matt. 6:33, Rom. 8:14).

Be not deceived by outward show: feathers float, but pearls lie low.

Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but, if you turn your mind to other things, like helping others, it comes and sits softly on your shoulder.

Would you have a problem accepting Father’s Divine Plan and Will for you, if it meant making some significant changes in your life (Matt. 7:21-24, John 5:30, 6:38, 7:17, 9:31)?

Words of Wisdom from Christ:

The HUGE mistake that women make, is, instead of being themselves, they are taught by Satan the master of illusion*, and learn from him to pretend to be something they are not, with make-up, jewellery, and fancy-revealing clothes, and that they are to be worshiped instead of God, as being super-hot and sex-goddesses. And this is all sold to men via Hollywood and Television, and other forms of media, including glossy men’s magazines and newspapers, from cradle to grave, to brainwash men into what to expect their perfect woman to be, which are impossible aspirations for women to live up to.

Then, after they are married and the goddess illusion is broken, and the man sees what they are really like, they feel that they have been deceived, which they have, and they resent their wives for doing this to them, and trapping them with a false reality, and the relationship becomes toxic, abusive, and falls apart into divorce, especially if the women are women’s libbers and disrespectful; talking back and arguing, instead of being quiet, loving, feminine and obedient.

No, decent man would abuse a loving, feminine, OBEDIENT wife (Genesis 3:16). (As described above.)

* Sura 31:30. That is because “I AM” is the (ONLY) Reality, and because whatever else they invoke besides Him is Falsehood (and therefore Fantasy/Illusion); and because “I AM”,- He is the Most High, Most Great.

God bless

 

My Experience

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Dear fellow ladies,

Good day.

We hope this finds you well, well-rested in good spirit and having a good day.

I would like to share my experience of attracting a wrong kind of man into my life.

Is it not every woman’s dream to get married to a real man? But turning this dream into reality is within itself a lesson and a test, as my personal experiences have proven. Even when we put our all into the relationship, we often end up feeling pressured or unfulfilled, sometimes causing sinful mistakes, which push the men in our lives further away. Why would any real man put up with a woman who was constantly trying to emasculate him? Women’s liberation is PROHIBITED by God. Think about it? Is women’s lib Love’s Divine Order? No. https://jahtruth.net/marguide.htm

In most African countries, when a girl has completed her education at a university or higher learning institution, the next expectation from parents, elders, friends, brothers and sisters, and society at large, is to see her bring a man home for marriage. And if they don’t see that, they begin asking why, at which point it quickly seems to become everyone’s concern.

In my youth, I started a courtship with a man whom I thought was my friend, but had to learn the hard way he was a shameless professional champion liar and an arrogant cheat. He was wasting my time, being illegally married with two children while playing the field, and committing adultery (Deut. 5:8-20). The courtship started during my high school years and eventually took the precious gift of my virginity causing me to unknowingly also commit adultery.  At the time I was thinking we were having a good time together.  I did not acknowledge it was actually fornicating and I was committing a sin. Now I know having sex outside of the sacred marriage vows is sinful. We are to remain shameless until taken in marriage.  Fornication in today’s society seems to be a very normal life-style, with people no longer caring about the consequences of this action. in fact, it is not recognized as a sin, but as dating and a normal part of courtship. Society as a whole has been duped into believing a lie, that because most don’t personally read their Bibles and The Laws of God, they can get away with this sin. (Hosea 4:6).  Not so. Everyone is being judged everyday according to God’s Law regardless of the lies they choose to believe (Deut. 22:27-29, 1 Corinthians 6:9-10). The Law states that a woman who cannot present tokens of her virginity upon entering into marriage should be stoned (Deut. 22:20-21). If everyone was abiding by The Law, then all the women would be virgins before marriage, and there would be no one to sleep with any of the men, so they would all be virgins as well and there would be no children born out of wedlock, in a loving stable relationship.

This relationship always had its challenges, which required constant mending to keep it going. But it eventually reached a point where we were both so separated from Father by our sinful acts, that there was seemingly no way to continue (Exodus 20:14, 1 Corinthians 6:9-19, 7:2, Ephesians 5:3, 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4, Matthew 5:19, 19:9 , Deut. 22:20-21).

Today I see my actions as a self-centered act for a desire to please and all this made me develop grudges unknowingly against this man (Mark 8:36-37). I did not grow up with parents, I was under the care of a guardian. I now see this as not having enough self-control over the self, thus sin entered in. I can now see my human made these emotional decisions. Obviously this was not Father’s Will for my life. Lesson here after the above failed test is: if the self is not recognized for who it really is, then the bad thoughts enter our minds, we believe it is really us and believe it knows best, instead of listening to our good voice within. Constant training of the human animal needs to take place on a daily basis, dying to self daily” The words in blue are lessons I learned from my Spiritual Guide after my confession.

At the time my thoughts were focused on the broken trust and the pain, and on finding someone else, instead of on what caused the problem and how to solve it, so, without thinking or knowing it, I was on the rebound, looking for love in all the wrong places. That’s a dangerous place to be. Indeed, someone else was found when I joined the University, but it didn’t last long, because I was uncomfortable since he had started demanding sex at an early stage of the relationship, and I could now tell he was the cheating type too and also needy. Due to this, I decided to reconcile with my ex, even when I no longer loved him like before, and he noticed the change and asked me about it. I remember one concerned relative telling me that your heart has refused that man, please don’t force it, because you don’t know what God is protecting you from.  God sometimes speaks to us through others, if we are listening.

Something else happened to me, and it occurred before I met the Truth/Christ/my Spiritual Guide. At this time I was still celebrating the pagan yuletide holidays and was preparing to go home for Christmas. Though I never enjoyed any of it because when celebrations like this took place, invariably I would be plagued with strong cramps, unnecessary headaches, body weakness, unhappiness, etc., and at the time I didn’t understand why. My relatives knew this and they always seemed concerned, because they saw my unhappiness. During this time I moved into my ex’s home district, to work part-time as secretary in the local Catholic Church, which set the stage for a day that is remembered well: 22/12/2014. It was then that a catholic priest almost raped me, but Father/God helped me overcome and escape him, and this horrible threat he posed not just to my body, but to me the spirit-Being (Matthew 16:18, 21, 21:15 23:7-8). All of this was a blessing in disguise, because it was a turning point for me. It was then that I wondered if God really sent these people (priests/religious leaders), and if they truly worked for Him, or if they were working for their selfish stomachs and desires? And if they truly work for Him, like they claimed, why are they all worshipping graven images, etc. (Exodus 20:4)? I always had questions about religion, but was still searching for answers as to why all this was taking place. You don’t have to go to church to be religious and serve God and Christ, in fact, the true definition of the word religion is ‘bonded obligation’ and that obligation is to God (The KING Ruler of The Universe) and His Commandments; Laws; Statutes; Judgments; Economic Policy; Diet; etc. contained in The Torah, which is the name given to the first five books in the Holy Bible – the Books of Moses.  It is seen clearly now the church and all its lies have been designed by satan to lead us down the wrong path, straight into The Fire on the Last Day with satan the deceiver/destroyer.

http://jahtalk.thefarrellreport.net/who-is-on-the-lords-side/

I had seen enough at the parish already, like young girls mingling with these filthy priests, to know this wasn’t right. Parents’ offerings and tithes going to support the very person who was hurting/stealing their daughter’s and son’s purity, because of the sinful sex practices of their parish priest. Did these parents have any idea how these predators were not only stealing sexual favors from their children, but their very souls as well (Matthew 16:26)?

Thank God he spared me this horror. All I thought I wanted at the time was to have children and a good husband. I took that job just to be near him, but when I caught him cheating and messing up other girls’ lives, lying to them as well, and getting involved with married women, I broke up with him and became emotionally dead, and never involved myself with another man. Little did I know Father was preparing me to receive His truth and my Spiritual Guide/The EXAMPLE (Real Love). The truth I received and meeting the Lord was a clear sign to stay away from what Father rejected for me, because He knows what is good for everyone and what we each deserve. Within a few days of returning home to my relatives, the above questions were answered by reading “The Way home or face The Fire” (TWHOFTF). Father sees when you are ready and He puts the truth in your path; then you have free will choice to accept it or refuse it. He is Amazing!  People are saying it is the MOST important book on the planet and it’s a free download at www.thewayhomeorfacethefire.net. This extraordinary little book helped me immensely, it gave answers to the above questions and others. It helped me begin to fix my life with Father’s Help. The Book came when it was most needed, in perfect time as Father Promises. As my Spiritual Guide said in Mathew 24:19 there is a time and place for everything under heaven (Ecclesiastes 3). Father knows best and keeps His promises unlike humans.

If you are striving to live by the Bible standard in your life, It doesn’t mean you won’t face a lot of trouble and challenges from society, as many of you already know. But the help, strength and loving guidance to overcome the evil we face will always be there, to see us through, as long as we do our part and keep the Faith and our evil selves under control.

I don’t know whether I was being naive, too trusting or thinking that since I began discovering the truth, nothing bad would happen to me, but one must never let their guard down and become arrogant. When my ex gave me a call and wanted to talk to me, little did I know he wanted to reconcile, despite my interests being totally different from his, having already met a man who was a follower of Christ. I foolishly allowed my ex to come to my place, and instead of talking, he raped me. I remember telling his mother about her son raping me and shockingly, she was in support of him. She said: “What were you thinking, do you think you can defeat a man when he has an urge for a woman?” Back then I knew I would since Father helped me defeat the priest before, and being emotionally dead, but like my Spiritual guide said: “Never underestimate satan”, because he attacks using people we least expect, we need to put on the Whole Armour of God, and have our loins girt about with truth, guarded all the time (Eph. 6:10-18). She added: “I knew you were coming back to cook for my son. I did everything possible to see that you get back with him,” praising herself and confident of her evil deeds. This hurt me, because she thought her witchcraft is better than God, yet claiming to serve God. Who is fooling whom? Christians follow and trust the husband of this woman from such an evil background. She is a very serious and well-known witch, frequently consulting witch-doctors. (Gal 5:20-21). This woman is a preacher’s wife. What insanity. We can see the hypocrisy in a protestant church as well.  I don’t think any lady who is thirsty for spirituality would like the idea of getting married in a family with an evil background full of chaos, envying, witchcraft, and the like, etc., which Father hates.

Taken from TWHOFTF 3:61 You, being really spirit, will never get true and lasting joy, or satisfaction, from animal-pleasures, as nice as they can be. It is self-defeating and a vicious-circle. The more you try, the more you feel you need, and the worse things become. A perfect example of this is nymphomania, where the subject confuses love with sex, which, being animal, does NOT bring true satisfaction and spiritual fulfillment. Satan then (from within) deceives them into thinking, that, if they get enough sex, they will be fulfilled, and they try desperately to get enough sex. Unfortunately, Satan is a liar, and has tricked them, once again, and they run around desperately, in a vicious-circle. The more sex they get, the less fulfilled they feel, so they try even harder and harder, becoming more and more lost; lonely; desperate and confused.

3:62 You are not an animal, you are spirit. Animal pleasures alone will NEVER satisfy your soul’s (your) need for spiritual love, and fulfillment.  This man’s selfish sinful ways continue to hurt me today. How could I trust this man after all I knew about him? Was it the self that wanted to be close to him and caused this to happen to me/my spirit Being? He even told me he had followed my comings and goings, using other people. Was he actually stalking me through these other people? It is now seen the man I attracted was a sexual predator/nymphomaniac. I say sexual predator because he was trying to obtain sexual contact with me and other women all at the same time and in an abusive manner. Sex before marriage, fornication, causes sin in others lives and your own. Taken from TWHOFTF 3:64 Learn to know the difference, between REAL love and animal sex or lust!

When the above incident happened, I asked myself; what’s next? What will happen if I get pregnant by him, before marriage, which seemed was his sole intention. How will others look at me? Already people in and around the workplace were calling me a virgin, and that I was not normal, saying they don’t know what I am waiting for, because they never see the usual text messaging, or courting that goes on with other young singles. Father had blessed me with a relatively simple and sheltered life, which, in turn, helped set me apart from the ways of society and my parents’ examples that conditioned me to be an easy target.

In my stupid mind, out of fear, I allowed the self to take control, and also pressure from others, concerned because they were not seeing me getting involved with any man, and were already asking questions (Acts 5:29). Upon that, I requested of him that because you have done this to me, if you truly love me like you claim, I will only accept marriage to you on one condition. He said name it. I told him if he accepted to follow Christ.

This meant a lot to me, because Christ had really changed my life. The man I was involved with agreed to these conditions, and even wrote to the Lord asking for His approval. Little did I know he was only faking it, just to try to win my heart. I was willing to forget his evil deeds, sacrifice, obey and surrender myself to him, if he truly followed Christ and would humble himself to be taught by The ONLY Teacher.  I knew I would be secure knowing he is learning from the Right Source, and leading me down the right path, like a man should do according to the Bible.

Even when he did that, I still felt within myself he was not the right man for me, because I felt spiritual unrest. Sex without LOVE leaves you feeling worthless. The question was why was I (the spirit Being) so unhappy? And why didn’t I pay attention to the spiritual guidance from within, rather than the human’s desires?  It is remembered well my Spiritual Guide asking me if I loved this man (He was trying to steer me clear of this man but still allowing me my free will choice) and I said, “Yes”, even when I was not sure, because of total confusion within myself.

I was still not pleased, even when his parents arranged for a pre-visit, things seemed not to work out. He lost his job beforehand, which he needed to help make arrangements for our special day. Even the money he fixed in an account was not released despite his efforts to process it early. This was seen as further proof Father/God (showing His signs of disapproval) was still in control and looking out for us. Even when humans think they are in control and don’t need HIM, His Love prevails. My relatives understood the problems and told them to postpone, but his family insisted, thinking I would change my mind, because of the misbehavior of their son, and indeed they were right. I could really begin to feel that Father wasn’t having any of this charade. Intimacy is NOT possible without Spiritual unity. Spiritual unity is only achieved when a man follows Christ, and the woman obeys the man coming together as one, unblemished by sin, into the Bridal Chamber to invite Father into their relationship first, and then consummating the marriage vows.

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I set a good spiritual boundary, without knowing it, with conditions that I was going to do a water fast for 3 days, but if Father gave him back his job, we would give Father, through Christ, the first money he received. He agreed, and then played along, faking it all the way. I told him if he should not fulfill his end of the deal, I would end our engagement and refuse to marry him. When he finally did receive his salary, he opened up his clinic instead of staying true to his word. He never provided for me, and I remember my special friend asking if he sent money to support me, which was taken into serious account. Now I know he wasn’t man-enough to even provide for his own child, which he produced from another woman. How he has hurt so many with sex, NOT Love. He claims to love, but instead is selfish in all his ways (Jer. 17:9).

At first, I thought his unwillingness to provide for me was due to his lack of a job, but by this time a very close friend gave me this book entitled “How To Attract A Real Man.” After reading it I realized this man’s character was defiled, and not providing for me was his way of doing things. He was lacking in good husband characteristics, exactly as the book explained. He could not even keep his own word to me, or for that matter not even to our Dear Sweet Lord, which made me so sad. Not only that, but coupled with my things going missing in the house, without any notice and my computer being broken which contained my cherished studies, (Deut 7:2-4), it was realized this man was not a gentleman and had no respect. He was working against the good in my life, and being used to deflect me from my spiritual path (Sura 63, TWHOFTF 3:12).

He was threatening to commit suicide if I broke off our engagement. With that realization, I committed to fast again, and I then had no fear and decided to end the engagement. I then wrote the Lord with sincerity, summarized all the reasons why I decided to end this engagement, and pointed out at least some of this man’s lies to The Lord, since he had made contact with The Lord.  At least I had some evidence from The Lord Himself, in addition to what there was from his own relatives, my own relatives, and his friends, who were concerned how this man was not living up to his words. And guess what the Lord’s response was?

“What you have done is okay.”

“2 Corinthians 6:14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what

fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion hath

light with darkness?

6:15 And what concord hath Christ with Wickedness? Or what part hath he that

believeth with an infidel?

6:16 And what agreement hath The Temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple

of the Living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in [them];

and I will be their God, and they shall be My people.

6:17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and

touch not the unclean [thing]; and I will receive you,

6:18 And will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be My [adopted] sons and

daughters, saith the Lord Almighty.

Peace be upon you, The Lord.”

My breakup with this man has been led by my Spiritual Guide and His gentle firm guidance and Real Love, which I have experienced (Matthew 11:28-30). In this manner He has gently moved me forward, step by step, sometimes minute by minute, in the right direction, turning my world from upside down to right side up, accomplishing Father’s Will now, and achieving true happiness and Love. I can’t imagine living life without Christ and Father’s direction, I can’t even afford to move without Father/TM’s direction, Life would be meaningless without Them, and I would be a moving corpse, the living-dead, and this is how I felt when I was still stuck in my unhappy relationship with my ex.

But now I feel full of joy and peace. It feels good knowing Father invited me into His spiritual family, and now I am full of hope for a bright future with our Sweet Lord, the only true Love we all have been looking for (Jer. 29:13, Matt. 7:7-8). Look up not down for all the right answers.

Sometimes this new Life feels like living in a dream, and then I thank Father for the reality of this Life, Only He and the Lord make our dreams come true. Spiritual is the real LIFE, and it sometimes feels like a dream. I’m so grateful it has come true. What I had experienced was NOT real Love, but emotional love, fake love this man had for me, all just to satisfy his selfish lust and desires. (1 John 2:16-17, Galatians 5:16-17). Real Love is learned by being in the constant presence of our Father, The King Ruler of The Universe, Who is NOT a human, but a Spirit Being (John 4:24).

Having officially broken off the engagement, I also told a few of The Lord’s loving followers, especially sister Naomi, because I had always told her almost everything in my life. She honestly took her time to forward all the past conversations to the Lord and she helped me clear these things up in my Life. I can’t thank Father/God and my Spiritual Guide and her enough. It was at a crucial time in my life that this book was offered to me as a gift.

https://womenstruelib.com/downloads/how_to_attract_a_real_man/”

I had already read “The Way Home or Face The Fire

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and there I found my Lord. Then sister Naomi told me she had always wanted to give me this book, but wasn’t sure if the contents would be well received, and be made a part of my life. My Spiritual Guide, along with her, demonstrating Their Love for me, and not giving up on me helped turn me from what would have been one of the worst mistakes of my human life: marrying an unGodly man (Deut.7:3-4). That helped put me on the narrow path to becoming truly feminine again, which is the only way to attract a real man, one who follows Christ, Who is THE EXAMPLE (John 14:6). Today I believe the wealth of becoming spiritually feminine is a priceless gift.

I have other sisters and brothers, who have also stood by my side, and talked through the challenges with me in this battle against attracting a wrong man. I was comfortable with them, because they showed me Love and we were on the same spiritual journey. Spiritually very committed ladies and gentlemen, never condemning or judging me (Matthew 7:1-6), but instead always showing loving concern, and encouraging me in the right direction. I may not know the others, but God willing we will get to know one another, one step at a time, as we keep practicing the Lord’s Love through teamwork and sharing our experiences. Isn’t that the real Love we’re all looking for (1 John 4:7-21)?

In summary, I realized that I had attracted the wrong kind of man into my life, which kept me from attracting the real man that I longed for, and needed to remain on the Strait and Narrow Way that leads to Life. But, with the help of Christ, Father (God) and the KEY to the Bible, TWHOFTF, along with this eye-opening book called “How to Attract a Real Man”, and all my special friends, I am now hopeful this dream will be achieved when both of us, my soul-mate and I, are ready to come together as one.

Here is a defensive technique I normally use against unGodly men. “I have become too expensive/unaffordable for anyone. Any man that asks for my hand in marriage cannot afford me now, unless they accept and Love Father and my Spiritual Guide, and prove they too desire to spend time with Them: The Source and Example of True Love. If you are not spending time with The Source of True Love already, how would someone trust you and your motivations? No amount of worldly wealth can buy true, spiritual Love. Our Spiritual Guide and Father in heaven are worth more than anything this world has to offer. How can anyone risk exchanging Spirituality for money (Matt. 16:26)?

It’s madness and compromising one’s integrity to exchange Immortality for worldly materialism/pleasures (Matt. 6:24). After all, when one is obeying Father and doing His Will, He provides everything we need. We can still enjoy marriage, and being under the leadership of real men, accomplishing a marriage that is like heaven on Earth, full of joy, peace, true happiness and Love. A couple that champions Father’s Will in their daily activities and thoughts, thanking and praising Him always, spends their time with Him until we become part of Him again. Isn’t that beautiful? Don’t you want to find and follow the road less traveled?

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Father’s blessings upon us all.

One Love :- )

Follower of Christ

Words of Wisdom from Christ:

The HUGE mistake that women make, is, instead of being themselves, they are taught by Satan the master of illusion*, and learn from him to pretend to be something they are not, with make-up, jewellery, and fancy-revealing clothes, and that they are to be worshipped instead of God, as being super-hot and sex-goddesses. And this is all sold to men via Hollywood and Television, and other forms of media, including glossy men’s magazines and newspapers, from cradle to grave, to brainwash men into what to expect their perfect woman to be, which are impossible aspirations for women to live up to.

Then, after they are married and the goddess illusion is broken, and the man sees what they are really like, they feel that they have been deceived, which they have, and they resent their wives for doing this to them, and trapping them with a false reality, and the relationship becomes toxic, abusive, and falls apart into divorce, especially if the women are women’s libbers and disrespectful; talking back and arguing, instead of being quiet, loving, feminine and obedient.

No, decent man would abuse a loving, feminine, OBEDIENT wife.

* Sura 31:30. That is because “I AM” is the (ONLY) Reality, and because whatever else they invoke besides Him is Falsehood (and therefore Fantasy/Illusion); and because “I AM”,- He is the Most High, Most Great.

Female Orgasm Depends on Surrender

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This article was written by Henry Makow and the original copy exists at:-

https://www.henrymakow.com/000441.html

 

Dr. Marie N. Robinson’s 1958 book, The Power of Sexual Surrender, explains that women need to surrender to a loving man in order to have a satisfying orgasm.  By encouraging women to become “strong”, “independent” and wary of men, feminism is blocking their sexual fulfillment. As result, women become frustrated, angry, and compensate by becoming masculine.

In their crusade to destroy European Christian civilization, Cabalists (satanist Jews and Freemasons, i.e. Communists) exploit every division. When they couldn’t foment class war, they turned woman against man. 

Under the guise of women’s, gay and tranny “rights,” heterosexuals are victims of a vicious satanic attack on their human identity. They are being re-engineered and they don’t even know it.  A woman’s love of husband and child is divine. Only demonically possessed people would destroy it. 

The Illuminati’s ultimate aim is to induct society into their satanic cult and to impose a veiled Communist police state.

Satanic cults are designed to exploit their members by corrupting and making them sick.

“The foundation of the Christian family is the sacrament of matrimony, the spring of all domestic and public morals. The anti-Christian societies [i.e. Illuminati] are opposed to the principle of home. When they have destroyed the hearth, the morality of society will perish.”  Benjamin Disraeli (Lothair, 1870)

(Revised from July 25, 2015)

 

by Henry Makow Ph.D.

Marie N. Robinson MD, a Cornell educated psychiatrist devoted her New York City practice to the treatment of frigidity. Her book, The Power of Sexual Surrender (1958) online here, is a revealing study of the feminine psyche. It is out-of-print. Why? It is politically incorrect.

Dr. Robinson says that millions of American women suffer from frigidity. While she explores many different causes, she notes that frigid women universally adopt the feminist view. This view, that a career as a wife and mother is demeaning and men exploit woman, creates an “emotional logjam” which obstructs sexual response and psychological development.

Dr. Robinson writes that a woman’s identity lies in an “essential feminine altruism.” Her self-expression and power are based on making her husband and children her first priority. Similarly, her sexual satisfaction and spiritual fecundity depend on self-surrender.

 

FEMININE DEVALUATION AND SELF-HATRED

Robinson writes that “to millions of women, hostility towards the opposite sex seems almost a natural law. Although modern women may pay lip service to the ideal of a passionate and productive marriage to a man, underneath she deeply resents her role, conceives of the male as fundamentally hostile to her, as an exploiter of her. She wishes in her deepest heart, and often without the slightest awareness of the fact, to supplant him, to exchange roles with him.” (emphasis mine 56)

Robinson says that if feminism had brought women happiness, the game might have been worth it.

“But it hasn’t been. The game has brought frigidity and restlessness and a soaring divorce rate, neurosis, homosexuality, juvenile delinquency all that results when a woman in any society deserts her true function.” (56)

Dr. Robinson writes that once the emotional “log jam” is removed, a woman’s natural instincts will flow and health will be restored. Essentially this involves “allowing herself to trust her husband in a very deep sense. It means that she finally realizes that she no longer has to fear or oppose his strength, but that she can rely on it to protect her, to give her the secure climate necessary for the full flowering of her femininity.” (153)

For a profound vaginal orgasm, Robinson writes, “the excitement comes from the act of surrender. There is a tremendous surging physical ecstasy in the yielding itself, in the feeling of being the passive instrument of another person…” (158)

On the other hand, the woman who mistrusts her husband’s love and, as a consequence, her own femininity has a “difficult, painful, frenetic” approach to life. She is at war with herself. In bed, she has to feel “in control all the time.”

Dr. Robinson says there is nothing in life more important than love. She believes marriage is the key to human development. The power of love is felt in the world through this relationship.

“Love means, in its very deepest sense union; union between individuals…It is the most basic and profound urge we have and its power for good is illimitable… the lover partner becomes as important as oneself…This fact is why real love never leads to domination or to a struggle for power…” (129)

 

GENDER DIFFERENCES

Robinson says men and women are different by nature. Men are designed for mastery of the external (physical) world, and women for mastery of the internal (spiritual) world and the home. These are not social stereotypes, as feminists argue.

“Women are designed for duties different from those of the marketplace, another kind of stress entirely,” writes Robinson. They “tend to lose their essential womanliness if they stay [in the marketplace] by choice.” (149)

According to Robinson, “the feminist credo thoroughly discredited feminine needs and characteristics and substituted male goals for female goals.”(53)

“The depreciation of the goals of femininity, biological and psychological, became part and parcel of the education of millions of American girls. Homemaking, childbearing and rearing, cooking, the virtues of patience, lovingness, giving ness in marriage, have been systematically devalued. The life of male achievement has been substituted for the life of female achievement.” (55)

 

CONCLUSION

The significance of The Power of Sexual Surrender is profound.

By coercing women to abandon their femininity and usurp the male role, feminism throws a spanner in the natural heterosexual mechanism of humanity. Women have been deprived of their natural biological and social role and condemned to loneliness and frustration. Similarly, men are deprived of the role of protector and provider essential to their development and fulfillment.

The triumph of such a wrongheaded ideology, and the suppression of the truth, signifies that control in the world has passed to a malignant force.

Robinson confirms my view that heterosexual union is based on an exchange of female power for male power expressed as love. A woman who seeks power is neutering herself and her husband. She will not receive love from a man whose identity is based on power. She cannot love someone she competes with. He cannot love her. This is the dilemma of feminists today.

As Marie N. Robinson confirms, woman loves by entrusting her power to the right man, her husband. He uses it to champion her interests. Thus she both empowers him and channels male power in a socially constructive direction. A woman’s real power is love, the power of self surrender.
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Note: Sex therapist Kim Anami writes:  “The game-changing factor that separates the girls from the women (or the clitoris from the vagina) is the ability to open up, drop your guard, and surrender. If you can’t do that, you won’t get there. These deeper, internal orgasms call on the deeper, internal parts of you. Your vulnerability, your authentic self–they need to be present. You can’t hide behind a wall.That’s why these orgasms are less likely to appear in casual sex situations. Or, if you have unresolved issues in the space between you and your partner. If anything is holding you back, you won’t get there.

“Having Sex” is not “Making Love”

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This article was written by Henry Makow and the original copy exists at:- https://www.henrymakow.com/2016/09/a-return-to-manking.html

 

“Having sex” has replaced “making love.”

But men and women want love, not just sex.

Male-female love is Divine.

Anonymous sex is the antithesis of Love.

That’s why Satanists promote it.

 

(A Return to “Making Love” )

by Henry Makow Ph.D. September 5, 2016

When I was young in the 1960’s, a man “made love” to a woman.

Sexual intercourse had a sacred archetypical dimension. A woman embraced a man’s spirit represented by his seed. A child was the fruit. Love-making was the sacred ritual of procreation. Children were our organic growth.

Sex was not an end in itself. A man expressed his adoration for his wife by giving her ecstatic pleasure. He “made love” to her. A powerful bond was established on the foundation of their sexual intimacy. But for this to happen, naturally it had to be exclusive.

Most fertile young women are sexually attractive to most men. But anonymous sex is dehumanizing – it’s about fleeting sensual pleasure and mutual exploitation. We are meant to rise above the level of insects.

God is Love. Male-female love is the closest most people will come to God. Satanists promote anonymous sex to pervert love.

 

WOMEN WANT TO BE ADORED

The “making love” dynamic is deeply ingrained in the human psyche. Women are looking for their Knight in Shining Armour, a man who will devote himself exclusively to her. They need love in order to blossom.

She will surrender her body and soul to such a man. She will follow him.

Men represent the power principle. Women represent love. Men want power. Women want love. Marriage is the exchange of the two: female worldly power for male power expressed as love.

Women’s sacrifice of power provides an example of love that inspires their husbands to love them and sacrifice for their family.

Making love is the symbol of the marriage bond. It is an act of possession.

 

ANONYMOUS SEX

Anonymous sex is humiliating for a woman. The message is clear. The man wants your body; he does not want you.

You are worthless.

If women are possessed by men who don’t love them, they are damaged. Satanists promote it to remove love from the world.

In The Psychology of Women (1944) psychiatrist Helene Deutsch said women are governed by masochistic and narcissistic principles. For sacrificing themselves to husband and children, they want to be adored as Goddesses.

Women need sex as much or more than men. But they can’t be truly satisfied unless they can completely surrender. In the Power of Sexual Surrender, (1958), psychiatrist Marie Robinson writes that for a profound vaginal orgasm, “the excitement comes from the act of surrender. There is a tremendous surging physical ecstasy in the yielding itself, in the feeling of being the passive instrument of another person…” (158)

A woman’s unconditional love is the most precious thing in the world. It’s the wellspring of harmony and happiness. A loving woman is ike the sunrise.

Instead, we’ve been trained to seek ersatz love, sex, a perfect body. But, in the act of love, all women are Perfect 10’s. A perfect body is nothing compared to the tenderness and bliss of a loving face, an expression only her husband sees.

Many women will have sex with you for a price. How many women can love you?

What pleasure can a man get from a woman who is going through the motions? Casual sex is following a banal script that ends with – “boy that was great” when it just leaves everyone feeling restless and empty and degraded. Spiritual hunger can only be satisfied by spiritual food.

Lovemaking is how two people become one. For a woman to sacrifice power, naturally she must trust a man completely. She must have the conditions found in marriage: devotion, fidelity and commitment.

Cabalist magicians attack woman’s trust in men with a drumbeat of domestic abuse, sexual harassment and rape. They teach women to seek power instead of love and become masculine themselves in order to emasculate men.
The Satanists want to destroy the divine heterosexual dynamic that brings love into the world. They want to reengineer the human race to be their domestic animals, i.e. goyim.
We need to stop having sex and start making love again.

Is Your World Turning Upside Down?

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Greetings to all, we are glad you are here and hope this finds you well, and in good spirit. I would like to expound on our guest writer’s article: “The Difference Between Advice and Encouragement”, in a way that you can begin to see it in action, from a daily relationship, and how we all either create an upside-down world, or a right-side-up world, based on the outcome of our daily decisions, thoughts, actions (the big and little ones) and what effect they have on our lives, and all those around us.

Many years back I began to imagine being married to a man who was a good man, who would be the leader in the family and take good care of me and his family; something I had not been able to experience in this life at that time, but now realize, I was not a spiritually feminine lady, at that time, and that was why. I dreamed of having a relationship where harmony worked to create a much more peaceful and productive environment, than I was living in at the time. I began by loving myself first, and, as the dream unfolded, I starting to face the obstacles of my past actions and decisions of allowing myself to be used, abused, becoming co-dependent, independent, bossy, etcetera, that had been preventing me from realizing my dream. By first taking an honest look at myself, and what position in the game of life I had chosen, which helped to created the chaos and disharmony in the first place, I faced my fears of not being loved. Knowing this was no way to live, I made a tough decision. Relying on this new knowing I set healthier boundaries, changed body-language and welcomed the change, accepting that this was right and that the dream would be fulfilled. Up until this point in my life all that me, myself, and I, had accomplished was hurting myself, others, and creating an “upside-down world.”

We have all heard the old saying, “love makes the world go ’round” (not sex), contrary to what we all have been taught by today’s upside-down society; sex and Love are not one in the same. Sex without love makes you feel worthless, used and abused. Love points us to The Ruler of The Universe, because He is LOVE. Acknowledging that He created and successfully runs the entire Universe, we should be able to trust Him to teach us how to become good and love one another. Women, if you offer a Real Man sex before marriage he will see this as a big turn off, instead of turn on, and will view you as promiscuous and untrustworthy. If you dress for sex, exposing a lot of skin, tight jeans and low neck tops, etcetera, then your body-language will most likely attract a man who has one thing on his mind, and it is not in either of your best interests. On the other hand, when you become spiritually feminine you will dress demure and feminine, learning how to attract the love of a real man, and enjoy the essence of True love, which you will deserve and enjoy. The wealth of becoming spiritually feminine is obtainable for all women. It is priceless, and I encourage each of you to seek after this special gift, if you don’t already possess it, and are actively practicing it every day. For the most part, our world turns right-side-up, by me being humble and teachable, always asking for my husband’s guidance, because ultimately he Rules over me and has the final decisions on everything. I have learned that my husband is still learning how to be spiritually mature, and makes mistakes too; this is a learning process for both of us. When this happens it is my responsibility to support him in his growth, and encourage him to correct his wrongs according to God’s Commandments, which will reflect his behavior back to him, making this conflict between him and God alone. By doing what is right, we ensure that God will be on our side, providing and protecting us through our husbands, as promised. By acting non-manipulative and submissive you will take yourself out of the conflict, helping him more than if you argue about who is right or wrong, or try to convince a man with Satan’s advice, like Eve did to Adam, which only leads to discord in the relationship. Hopefully, you are now beginning to “see” that by acting spiritually feminine, you have a far greater effect on the relationship. If we want to live a joyful, healthy life, it is important to put God first and foremost in all aspects of our lives, by following His perfect Laws. By doing so, you fall under His promised blessings, where He will never let you down and you will never feel alone. You will always receive His unconditional LOVE, when and IF you are ready to receive it. As we ALL have been told, “Father knows best”, so it seems that The 10+2 Command-ments are a perfect guide, that everyone should follow when making decisions, and taking action, on a daily basis. The word Command-ments means commanded to obey, and they were given to us with our best interest in mind.

A mutual friend, who introduced my husband and I, had been trying for a while to get me to agree to meet him, so she shared many things about him, like his talents and pictures of him, but the one thing that really sparked my interest, because I was not interested in his looks and another bad relationship, was the fact he did not work on the Sabbaths (Saturday) for money. She said he would help people out on that day, if need be, but never charge for it. This made my decision to allow her to give him my number. He later shared with me, that prior to us meeting, while on vacation, he had cried out to God at the top of the mountain, accepting the fact that God had not placed the right woman in his life, accepting instead the solitary life he had been living with God, which he had done for over seven years. When he returned he saw her message, and he waited a while, to be sure he was supposed to call me. After nearly a week, he called me, and that’s when I asked him about his relationship with Christ. Based on his answer, I had some trust in him, before actually meeting in person, publicly, and was now looking for his actions to line up with his words. He invited me to meet him for dinner one Sunday evening. Before ordering I mentioned I might have a beer, which I didn’t, because the thought of finding a man who truly wanted to serve God was important to me, and I did not want to run him off. He kindly replied with compassion in his voice, “Is that what you think you need to be doing with your life?” Although I had drunk alcohol almost every day, up until I met him, that evening was when I stopped drinking. I have never had another drink since, and now I see how I was testing him, to see if he was for real, and he sure was. He suggested we study together on The Sabbaths, which I enjoyed, because he read God’s Holy Word to me, and that is when my desires for alcohol, materialism, sex, vanity, money, power, etcetera began to diminish, and for the first time I felt satisfied inside. The truth is alcohol dissolves our inhibitions to abstain from sinful behaviors. Prior to meeting him, I did not want to drink, but had not been able to stop, even though I had attended church and 12 step meetings.

As the relationship grew, I could see his words lined up with his actions, as he stood firm in his beliefs. He exercised his manhood establishing healthy boundaries for our relationship. One of the greatest demonstration of his love and respect for our Creator, himself and me was when he informed me of his wishes for us to stay out of bed, insisting on saying our marriage vows to God and each other first, and then consummating our marriage on the honeymoon, thereby obeying the First Commandment to Love God first. I agreed, knowing this would take great self-control on both our parts, and we both faithfully kept our word to God and each other. As a result, he surprised me with a white rose, dipped in gold, on our honeymoon night, as a gift/symbol celebrating our purity together. Another way he did not over-step his boundaries with me, was when he knelt down to ask if he could kiss me for the first time, which touched my heart deeply and proved he was a gentleman. I liked this way of creating our world/thinking and felt the true love, that his actions were proving between us. With his masculine love and good examples, I now had hope, a sense of security, which made me feel loved and cherished, as our love grew stronger. Have you ever heard this saying? “YOU are your own worst enemy.” That is the Truth, and until we face these facts our egos will defeat us every time, keeping us from attracting and falling in love with a real man.

Learn to take action, change behaviours and set boundaries, so this kind of man will seek you out, and then you will be able to learn that your greatest power lies in your willingness to be guided by a real man. I faced-down my ego and learned to look to him for everything, especially strength and courage to continue to follow him, and this new way of learning to love each other, that he was teaching me.

When we first started dating, he had been working on a single woman’s residential home for quite a while, and he told me he needed to get finished with it, and move on to others. So he asked me to help him with the work one day, which set the foundation for him to train me to be his help-meet. It was during this time that he would repeat a saying that I did not fully understand, but was willing to learn. He kept repeating it, sometimes on a daily basis, “familiarity breeds contempt”. At the time I was learning how to recognize my feelings and behaviors more, with a sober mind now, a gut feeling if you will, a knowing, and trusting in this guidance. The more he would say this quote, the more I understood and put it into action, being careful to keep our healthy boundaries each day, striving to always be courteous, greeting each other with a kiss and a hug, being polite, putting the needs of others first, before my self, and learning when conflict came, to still do the same.

Through these acts of selflessness the love continued to grow, and I began to understand how to let him lovingly guide me, as our hours turned into days. The time flew by and my world started turning right-side-up. At the time we met, I had also been attending organized religion for years, but when I ask my new best friend to go with me, he said he could not do that, knowing the truth about those organizations, stating, instead, that Christ’s sacrifice on the cross had abolished the priesthood, for all time. He also taught me that Christ is the ONLY teacher we need, and that He warned us about the “Traditions of The Fathers/Elders”, and about not attending the Synagogues (the churches of that day). Then gave me a clear concise answer from the Scriptures for his decision, and all this Truth came together and made perfect sense, as only the Truth does, as to why I was not getting my spiritual needs met in these places. It was at this point in my life that I vowed to stop attending these organizations.

By this time we were not only best friends, but we had fallen in love with each other, spending time together when not working, which led to him asking me to marry him, and without hesitation, I knew I was in true love with him, and convinced he was my soul-mate. So I said, “Yes”. He made the announcement formal, after getting the approval from my dad and his mom, followed by an engagement-ring surprise at The Grace Ranch (our future home together), and a special just the two of us dinner. We then agreed on a date and decided our marriage vows were very important to us, and agreed we wanted to be married by a pastor who would marry us under God’s Royal Laws of Liberty, not the state’s licensing, as it used to be, since the establishment of this country. Keeping an open mind, he said it made sense to first ask the pastor where I had attended church. This pastor would not make an appointment for us, because we were not taking their marriage counseling, which confirmed to me, my new fiancé’s earlier words of truth about organized religion, and how it contravenes the actual Word in Scripture. This encouraged me to cancel my membership, by written notice, in an email full of Truth, to the pastor, about him and his 501c3 corporate business. I’ve not looked back, knowing all these decisions have been good for us both. Have you ever heard that the Truth mixed with lies is still a lie, even if the majority believes it, however the Truth is still the Truth, even if no one chooses to believe Him.

Shortly after the honeymoon, my new husband shared more about how his life had transformed, by a discovery and encounter he had with The Truth, which turned his world right-side-up, and helped form him into this real man which I now love so much. He showed me a “little book” titled, The Way home or face The Fire by JAH and shared how it made a massive impact on his life, which prompted me to read it also. What an enormous gift of LOVE and Truth this “little book” revealed to me. I had no idea that I was reading the Most Extraordinary book on the planet. Never had I heard so much Truth that was easy to read, understand and digest. I was overwhelmed and amazed, by all the answers to the questions I had had about my life, and the long awaited Truth of all things on Planet Earth; for a while it left me overwhelmed by this Love I was experiencing. It is now one of my favorite books, which I still read quite often, because I’ve discovered, that when you effectively apply the contents to your life, they start to turn your world right-side-up, as they have ours. This is something I freely share with other’s Beings as it has been proven to be THE KEY that unlocks the Scriptures, and has helped me immensely in my life, by correcting my way of thinking, concerning me and the upside-down world revolving around me every day.

Have you ever been told it’s not what you say that matters, but how you say it. Contrary to that; what you say does matter, which became apparent to me, as I was making amends for my wrongs against my husband, after being corrected by him. He was patient and kind most of the time with his authority, until I would try to emasculate his manhood. Then he would react with loving force to defend his authority. This would happen when I would try to give him advice (society’s influence of liberating women to be man’s equal, coming from Satan), which I didn’t realize, at the time, destroys the masculine instincts in a man to protect and provide, normally bringing out instead a man’s animal instincts, causing discord in the relationship. Instinctively, he would enforce his strong leadership boundaries against this advice, in defense of his spiritual masculinity. It seemed, at the time, that he was being too hard on me, but, looking back, now I am glad he was, and realize it was with loving force and for good reasons. So ladies, if you desire the love of a real man in your life, instead of domestic strife and violence, then it is your husband that you should be obeying, thereby obeying Christ and God first, through him. I would apologize sincerely, and express to him my determination to change that bad behavior, thus proving it is important what you say. My newly learned behaviors worked like magic, and I encourage all women to give them a try, when you are ready to learn How to Attract a Real Man. Acknowledging his leadership, I would ask my husband what to do with possessions I no longer needed. He would give me logical choices and encouragement, with which to make a good decision, allowing my input first, and then I depended on him to make the final decisions, knowing the man should Rule Over The Woman, and her desires shall be subject to her husband.

Men are better equipped to deal with stress than women, due to the fact the man was created in God’s image first, then woman was made out of the man’s rib, making her the weaker vessel. Good news is: if you start to make changes where you can, in your behaviors, then there is a better chance that a real man will seek you out and marry and protect you, so you can start learning and practicing these new behaviors and beliefs, with him. The Truth is my experience with this kind of LOVE is far better, and more satisfying, than any sex I have ever experienced in this lifetime.

On one occasion he showed me a visual teaching-example that helped me so much, that I want to share it with each of you, hoping you will remember it each time you look at your hand. He called it Divine Authority, a lesson I now realize was essential for me to learn, in order for love to guide our relationship. He demonstrated this by holding his hand thumb up, he said, “the thumb represents God (The Ruler of The Universe), the index finger represents Christ (pointing The Way), the middle one is the man (real man), the ring/marriage finger is the woman/help-meet, and the pinky finger representing Satan. When the man and woman are obeying the correct order of divine authority, their world is right-side-up, resulting in harmony, love and peace in marriage. Now turn your hand/world upside-down. When the woman gives advice to the man, instead of encouragement, Satan (which means The Opposer) is now on top influencing and controlling the woman. When the man listens to the woman’s advice, instead of Christ and God, like Adam did, and follows the woman, it causes him to relinquish his spiritual authority to the woman, thereby really to Satan, who is influencing and controlling the woman through her emotions, causing curses in the relationship, for being disobedient to God and Christ. Please notice God and Christ (real love) are now on the bottom and their spiritual blessing are left completely out in marriage.” This is the same scenario that resulted in Adam and Eve being expelled from The Garden of Eden, and is happening every day, to everyone, everywhere around the world.

Will we ever learn? Taking an honest look at the mess this planet is in, it is obvious we have not followed God’s guidance and Way, explaining why the world today is operating upside-down, full of all kinds of evil and corruption, which makes Father/God sad to see, because He LOVES each of us and is patiently waiting for you to ASK Him for His help.

The only way to correct the situation in the world, is for each of us to right the Divine Authority in our lives and relationships, starting with turning our thumbs up in our own lives, pointing to The Way to “How to Attract a Real Man” and become a spiritually feminine lady, thereby wearing his ring and taking his name, to become one flesh and his true help-meet, as it was meant to be, coming under the real man’s guidance, relinquishing society’s satanic teaching of women being men’s equal, and coming under God’s blessings. A great teaching about marriage can be found in “This is a Great Mystery: Marriage Guidance” by D.P. Grafton, Edited: Corrected and Supplemented by JAH. We highly recommend you read this and all the other links found here, for your own sake. Once the divine order is corrected, the man and woman begin to realize the divine blessings that Only God and Christ can bestow, creating harmony and love that flows freely. In my own experience this has become apparent over and over again, as we learn to follow God’s grace/serendipity in our daily lives.

God gave us the answers to our relationship difficulties, as we were in a major crisis up until the end of this year, helping us to resolve the issues and restore the harmony in our own relationship. As I look back on my life, I realize everything I have had to deal with has helped prepare me for these opportunities today, which are guiding and encouraging women to learn Women’s True Liberation. Our lives have been transformed so much for the better, due to all these changes. It is good to know God is always here, ready to guide, teach and lend that helping hand, when we trust and OBEY Him. He is our JOY and exceeding great reward.

In Closing:  May we strongly suggest you choose wisely what you follow, knowing everyone has their own free-will to choose their path in life. Hopefully you will become like a pebble that is dropped in water, making an endless wave of love, acknowledging your spiritual life depends on it. We both believe these Truths come from Christ, our spiritual leader and guide, and His Word found in the Old Testament, New Testament and Holy Koran, found for Free reading in the King of kings’ Bible by JAH, and is the bedrock of our relationship. We also hope you will take the time to read and digest Lynn Paris’ book, How to Attract a Real Man, which helped us both, to learn how to create more love and boundaries in our relationship, accomplishing more balance, harmony and joy in our lives. Finally we hope you will turn your world right-side-up, if you have not already done so, by first establishing your relationship with God and Christ, as your authorities in all things, becoming spiritually feminine, or men spiritually masculine, relying on God and Christ Only, to provide all of your spiritual and material needs.

May God bless all your relationships.

Love and Laugh,

Catherine