Fellow Truthseekers:
I hope this finds you well, in good spirit and having a good day.
Understanding that the hour is very late and that the world is growing darker by the day if not by the hour, there needs to be a fundamental shift in the focus of this group/website, to better serve its visitors. Please see the passages below that have motivated this decision.
Ecclesiastes 3:1-8
3:1 To every [thing there is] a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:
3:2 A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up [that which is] planted;
3:3 A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;
3:4 A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
3:5 A time to cast stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
3:6 A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;
3:7 A time to tear, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
3:8 A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace.
There is a time for everything, and the time for becoming one flesh (Genesis 2:24) and for having children, has come to an end for those who are spiritually awake and striving to draw closer to God (James 4:8) while there is still time.
These are the marriage preparations that we should be making now:
2 Corinthians 11:2 For I am jealous over you with Godly jealousy: for I have espoused you to one husband, that I may present [you as] a chaste virgin to Christ.
Revelation 19:7 Let us be glad and rejoice, and give honour to Him: for the Marriage of the Lamb is come, and His “Wife” (Israel – the 144,000) hath made herself ready.
There are very stern warnings from Christ that we would do well to heed while preparing ourselves for the Marriage of the Lamb (e.g. Matthew 10:34-38; 24:19; 24:37-39).
Please join us on this glorious journey described in greater detail in the little book entitled The Way home or face The Fire by JAH.
May God be with you every step of The Way.

What Is A Spiritually Feminine Lady?

Girl with prayer book

This covering is outward sign of an inward spiritual change with-in the human+Being.

1 Corinthians 11:10 For this cause ought the woman to have a covering on her head, as a sign that she is under the power of her husband because of the angels.

11:11 Nevertheless neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without man, in the Lord.

11:12 For as the woman [is] of the man, even so [is] the man also by the woman; but all things by God.

11:13 Judge in yourselves: is it comely that a woman pray unto God uncovered?

11:14 Doth not even nature itself teach you, that, if a man have long hair, it is a shame unto him?

11:15 But if a woman have long hair, it is a glory to her: for [her] hair is given her for a covering.

Guidance from The Lord below:

Please see  verse 11:10 where it says … have a covering on her head and Verse 11:15 where it says…her hair is given her for a covering…are two different things.

How can a woman’s long hair be “on her head”? A woman is to have a covering on her head and long hair…

A woman is to have a covering on her head, such as a scarf or hat.

You may not know it but you are a Spirit-Beings in a female body meant to learn from other spirit-Beings in male bodies, who are devoted to following Christ Leadership, Who is led by Father (God) – see 1 Corinthians 11:3– to reverse the fall of Adam.

Come on Ladies let’s work together becoming what God designed us to be, a spiritually feminine lady, a gift beyond measure, worth fighting for, leading to a Life filled with true happiness and lasting Joy. This book also made a big impact on my life revealing spiritual insights that create a Godly marriage,  How To Attract a Real Man, ‘A must read for any woman who keeps attracting bad relationships’ please see book page for more details.”
1 Corinthians 11:3 – CONFIRMATION that WOMEN’s LIBERATION is PROHIBITED. But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman [is] the man; and the head of Christ [is] God. 11:7 For a man indeed ought not to cover [his] head, forasmuch as he is the image and glory of God: but the woman is the glory of the man.

3:121 A REAL lady (spiritual-qualities, NOT money, or titles) has already learned special qualities, that are preparing her to become a man, in a later lifetime. She has grace and elegance, WITHOUT arrogance; is 100% feminine (soft; warm; affectionate and loving); is self-sacrificing and humble, towards her loved-ones and people in general; is modest about her body, and does not exhibit her nakedness to anyone, except her husband; is a virgin when she gets married, saving her charms, unspoiled, for the man she loves (a woman, almost always, falls in love with, and never forgets, the man to whom she gives her virginity)(lst. Timothy 2:15).

3:143 That is why a woman should love; honour; cherish and OBEY her husband (unless he is trying to get her to do wrong), through good and bad times (and not leave a sinking-ship – but help with the bailing-out), until death, and learn from him, and help and encourage him to be good.

Ladies next!
13:89 Come on you silent FEMININE majority, speak-up, and help your man to put things right.
Say that you want to be treated like LADIES, with love and respect, and courtesy. Tell your manly,
liberated sisters, that you do NOT AGREE with them, and to stop spoiling everything for you, and,
thereby, make them back-down.

Christ Personal Bible The King of kings’ Bible , and  The Way home or face The Fire ,  The ONLY Survival Plan for Mankind helps.


True Humility

True Humility


From: The Way home or face The Fire

by JAH (see links below)

12:19 How many thousands of years would it take you all, to stop letting Satan deceive you, by using your egos and arrogance against you, to put blinkers on you, and lead you anywhere he chooses?
12:20 HUMILITY and FAITH are the ONLY way, to prevent that from happening, and, from them, comes the truth, and “the Truth will set you free” (John 8:32 / King of kings’ Bible, John 8:23).

You can NOT cheat God, you are only cheating yourselves.
12:117 Western, “civilized (?)”, society, with its collective arrogance; in believing that it knows how to run the world, better than God does, and by moving away from fearing God, to trying to make men afraid of silly human laws/legislation, and society itself; has poisoned ITSELF and is dying, rapidly.
12:118 The ONLY antidote is to learn HUMILITY, and the power of love and God, and to re-instate GOD as The Ruler of the World, and dissolve all the human laws, and use God’s Laws (Matt. 5:17-18 & Malachi 4:4).

12:123 Learn HUMILITY, and admit your mistakes, and turn around, before it is TOO late!
Can you not see what you are doing to yourselves?
12:124 There are none so blind, as those who do not want to see, because they are blinded by their own arrogance (Isaiah 42:19).

Find a PDF with the hyperlinks active 13 Aspects of True Humility.pdf (613.2 KB)

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Christ’s Net 1

The Way home or face The Fire 2

Starwars (Episodes 4 to 6 inclusively) – Fact NOT Fiction 1


How To Create Healthy Boundaries

An intimate relationship is one in which neither party silences, sacrifices, or betrays the self truth and each party expresses strength and vulnerability honor, weakness quiet confidence (Isa. 30:15) and competence in a balanced way1.” ~Harriet Lerner

1Note: The above sentence wreaked of cognitive dissonance (double-mindedness – James 1:8) the way it was previously written.

This article was corrected in accordance with what the Bible teaches. Please see the book of Thomas for more in-depth guidance on overcoming “self”.

Setting spiritual goals is essential if we want to be both physically and emotionally healthy. Creating a healthy spirit is empowering. By recognizing the need to set and enforce limits spiritual goals, you protect against your “self”, maintain sanity, and enjoy healthy relationships.

Unhealthy boundaries cause emotional pain that can lead to dependency, depression, anxiety, and even stress-induced physical illness2. A lack of spiritual training is like leaving the door to your home unlocked: anyone, including unwelcome guests, can enter at will (Matt. 24:43).

2Trying to remember all of the made-up boundaries/lies to keep the ego inflated.

On the other hand, having too high of an opinion of one’s self can lead to isolation, like living in a locked-up castle surrounded by a mote. No one can get in, and you can’t get out3.

3Being full of one’s “self” leaves no room for the truth to get in, which is the only thing that can set us free.

What Are Boundaries?

Boundaries are barriers, rules or limits that a person creates to identify for their “selves” what they prejudge to be safe and permissible ways for other people to behave around them and how their “self” will respond when someone steps outside those limits. (

The easiest way to think about a boundary is a property line. We have all seen “No Trespassing” signs, which send a clear message that if you violate that boundary, there will be a consequence (Mark 12:31). This type of boundary is easy to picture and understand because you can see the sign and the border it protects. Personal “self” boundaries can be harder to define because the lines are invisible, can change, and are unique to each individual “self” (Deut. 12:8). Personal boundaries, just like the “No Trespassing” sign, define where your “self” ends and others begin and are determined by the amount of physical and emotional space your “self” allow between yourself and others. Personal “self” boundaries control you and decide what types of communication, behavior, and interaction are acceptable to it4.

4Anything that reinforces its illusions and “self” deceptions.

Why is it important for the “self” to set boundaries (Rom. 8:5-8)?

To practice self promotion and self defense

To communicate its selfish needs in a relationship

To make time and space for itself (Gal. 2:20)

To set limits in a relationship in a way that is “self”-centered

Physical Boundaries

Physical boundaries provide a barrier between your “self” and what it perceives to be an intruding force, like a Band-Aid protects a wound from abrasion. Physical boundaries include control over your body, its sense of personal space, its sexual orientation, and privacy (1 Cor. 9:27). These boundaries are expressed through clothing, shelter, noise tolerance, verbal restraint, and controlling body language. An example of physical “self” boundary violation: a truth talker. Its immediate and automatic reaction is to step back in order to reset its personal space. By doing this, it sends a non-verbal message that when this person comes too close to the truth it feels an invasion of its personal space5. If the truth continues to move closer, it might verbally protect its boundary by telling him/her to stop sharing the truth with you.

5The “self” is constantly trying to reinflate itself, to take up all of its personal space.

Other examples of physical boundary invasions by the ego/“self” are:

Inappropriate touching, such as unwanted sexual advances.

Looking through others’ personal files and emails.

Not allowing others their personal space. (e.g., barging into your boss’s office without knocking)

Emotional and Intellectual Boundaries

These boundaries protect your ego’s sense of “self” importance and its ability to separate your from others (Luke 9:23).

When you have weak emotional boundaries, it’s like getting caught in the midst of a hurricane with no protection from your “self”. It exposes itself by being greatly affected by others’ words, thoughts, and actions and ends up feeling bruised, wounded, and battered6.

6Self-pity is a powerful dark emotion.

These include beliefs, behaviors, choices, sense of responsibility, and your ability to be intimate (truthful) with others (Matt. 16:27). Examples of emotional and intellectual boundary invasions are:

Not knowing how to separate your feelings from your ego’s emotions and allowing his/her mood to dictate your level of happiness or sadness (a.k.a. codependency Thom. 1:6-8).

Sacrificing your plans, dreams, and goals in order to please it (the ego/”self”).

Not taking responsibility for yourself and blaming others for your problems.

Barriers to Boundary Setting

It seems obvious that no one would want their boundaries violated by their “self”. So why do we allow it? Why do we NOT enforce or uphold our boundaries?

FEAR of rejection and, ultimately, abandonment.

FEAR of confrontation.


We were not taught healthy spiritual boundaries.

Safety Concerns

Assess the current state of your(?) boundaries


Control self importance and self discipline.

Share information gradually, on a need to know basis, in a mutually sharing and trusting relationship.

Protect physical and emotional space from intrusion by the “self”.

Have healthy relationship where responsibility and power are constantly maintained by the spirit-Being over the “self”.

Be certain before speaking. Confidently and truthfully say “yes” or “no” and be okay when others say “no” to you (Matt. 5:37).

Separate your needs, thoughts, feelings, and desires from your “self”. Recognize that your boundaries and needs are different from its.

Empower your true, spiritual self to make healthy choices and take responsibility for yourself. If you are dealing with someone who is physically dangerous or threatening to you, it may not be safe to attempt to set explicit boundaries with them. If you are in this situation, it can be helpful to work with a THE Counselor, Therapist and Advocate (1 John 2:1) to create a safety plan and boundary setting may be a part of this.

UNHEALTHY BOUNDARIES are characterized by the “self”:

Sharing too much too soon or, at the other end of the spectrum, closing you off so it can express its need and wants.

Feeling responsible for its happiness at the expense of others.

Inability to say “no” for fear of rejection or abandonment.

Inflicting its weak sense of your own identity. Deceiving you into basing how you feel about yourself on how others treat you, instead of on doing Father’s Will (Matt. 6:10).

Disempowerment. You allow others to make decisions for you (including your “self”); consequently, you feel powerless and do not take responsibility for your own life and actions.

Tips for Setting Healthy Boundaries (Modified from the book, Boundaries: Where You End and I Begin by Anne Katherine)

When you identify the need to set a boundary, do it clearly, calmly, firmly, respectfully, and in as few words as possible, with no thought of “self”. Do not justify, get angry, or apologize for the boundary you are setting if you KNOW it’s Father’s Will. You are not responsible for the other person’s reaction to the spiritual boundary you are setting. You are only responsible for communicating your boundary in a respectful manner. If it upset them, know it is their problem.

Some people, especially those accustomed to controlling, abusing, or manipulating you, might test you. Plan on it, expect it, but remain firm. Remember, your behavior must match the boundaries you are setting. You cannot successfully establish a clear spiritual boundary if you send mixed messages by apologizing. At first, you will probably feel selfish, guilty, or embarrassed when you set a spiritual boundary. Do it anyway and remind yourself you have a right to care what’s best for all concerned. Setting spiritual boundaries takes practice and determination.

Don’t let anxiety, fear or guilt prevent you from taking care of your “self” and keeping it in line. When you feel its anger or resentment or find your “self” whining or complaining, you need to set a spiritual boundary for it (James 1:19). Listen to your inner, spiritual self, determine what you need to do or say, then communicate concisely. Learning to set healthy boundaries takes time. It is a process. Set them in your own time frame, not when someone else (or your “self”) tells you. Develop a support system of people who respect your right to set spiritual boundaries. Eliminate toxic persons from your lifethose who want to manipulate, abuse, and control you (2 Cor. 6:14-16).





A Beautiful Woman

A Woman with a beautiful body is good for a night, but a Woman with a beautiful mind is good for a lifetime.

Woman in forest


Your body is sacred (1 Cor.3:16-17). You’re far more precious than diamonds and pearls (Matt.10:30-31, 16:26), and you should cover all the precious God given gifts” for safe keeping until the proper time (Matt. 25:1-13, 1 Peter 3:1-6).

Question: Have you had these kinds of conversations with your daughter; your sister; your mom; or your best female friend? Every other message, on this topic, that she will get throughout her day will say the opposite. The examples in the world are a total DISGRACE. They leave nothing to the imagination. She needs your voice to speak the truth; wisdom; guidance and discretion into her life.

Brigitte Bardot the beautiful French actress said, “The imagination is the most erogenous zone.”

Please take your time to read this.

Two young women arrived at a meeting wearing clothes that were quite revealing. The chairman took a good look at them and asked them to take a seat. Then he said something that they might never forget in their life. He looked at them eye to eye and said; “Ladies, everything valuable that God made in this world is well covered and hard to find, or get, and you should be no exception.

1. Where do you find DIAMONDS? Diamonds are down in the ground, covered and protected.

2. Where do you find PEARLS? Pearls are deep down at the bottom of the ocean, covered up and protected inside a beautiful shell.

3. Where do you find GOLD? Way down in the mine, covered and protected with layers of rocks and hard to get them. You need to work hard and dig deep down to get them.” He looked at them with serious eyes and said; “Your body is sacred, valuable and unique. You are far more precious than DIAMOND, PEARL or GOLD, and your body should be covered too.

So he added that, “If you keep your treasured mineral just like DIAMOND, PEARL and GOLD deeply covered up, a reputable mining company with the requisite machinery will come down and conduct years of extensive exploration. First they will contact your government (dad/family), sign a professional contract (wedding), and mine you professionally (lawful marriage). But if you leave your precious minerals uncovered on the surface of the earth, you always attract unlawful miners (thieves) to come and mine you unlawfully. Everybody will just use their crude instrument and dig into you freely, just like that. Keep your precious minerals (body) deeply covered so that it invites professional (lawful) miners to chase and explore you.”

Let’s all encourage our wives, daughters and friends to dress well, with modesty and decency. Credit to the original owner (John 3:35, Heb. 1:1-2). Exodus 8:19. Open not thine heart to every man, lest he requite thee with a shrewd turn. 9:1. Be not jealous over the wife of thy bosom, and teach her not an evil lesson against thyself. 9:2. Give not thy soul unto a woman to set her foot upon thy substance (1st Commandment). 9:3. Meet not with an harlot, lest thou fall into her snares. 9:8. Turn away thine eye from a beautiful woman, and look not upon an-other’s beauty; for many have been deceived by the beauty of a woman; for herewith love is kindled as a fire (Samson).

Our human eyes will deceive us, our spirit-Being is to lead us (Matt. 6:33, Rom. 8:14).

Be not deceived by outward show: feathers float, but pearls lie low.

Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but, if you turn your mind to other things, like helping others, it comes and sits softly on your shoulder.

Would you have a problem accepting Father’s Divine Plan and Will for you, if it meant making some significant changes in your life (Matt. 7:21-24, John 5:30, 6:38, 7:17, 9:31)?

Words of Wisdom from Christ:

The HUGE mistake that women make, is, instead of being themselves, they are taught by Satan the master of illusion*, and learn from him to pretend to be something they are not, with make-up, jewellery, and fancy-revealing clothes, and that they are to be worshiped instead of God, as being super-hot and sex-goddesses. And this is all sold to men via Hollywood and Television, and other forms of media, including glossy men’s magazines and newspapers, from cradle to grave, to brainwash men into what to expect their perfect woman to be, which are impossible aspirations for women to live up to.

Then, after they are married and the goddess illusion is broken, and the man sees what they are really like, they feel that they have been deceived, which they have, and they resent their wives for doing this to them, and trapping them with a false reality, and the relationship becomes toxic, abusive, and falls apart into divorce, especially if the women are women’s libbers and disrespectful; talking back and arguing, instead of being quiet, loving, feminine and obedient.

No, decent man would abuse a loving, feminine, OBEDIENT wife (Genesis 3:16). (As described above.)

* Sura 31:30. That is because “I AM” is the (ONLY) Reality, and because whatever else they invoke besides Him is Falsehood (and therefore Fantasy/Illusion); and because “I AM”,- He is the Most High, Most Great.

God bless


My Experience


Dear fellow ladies,

Good day.

We hope this finds you well, well-rested in good spirit and having a good day.

I would like to share my experience of attracting a wrong kind of man into my life.

Is it not every woman’s dream to get married to a real man? But turning this dream into reality is within itself a lesson and a test, as my personal experiences have proven. Even when we put our all into the relationship, we often end up feeling pressured or unfulfilled, sometimes causing sinful mistakes, which push the men in our lives further away. Why would any real man put up with a woman who was constantly trying to emasculate him? Women’s liberation is PROHIBITED by God. Think about it? Is women’s lib Love’s Divine Order? No.

In most African countries, when a girl has completed her education at a university or higher learning institution, the next expectation from parents, elders, friends, brothers and sisters, and society at large, is to see her bring a man home for marriage. And if they don’t see that, they begin asking why, at which point it quickly seems to become everyone’s concern.

In my youth, I started a courtship with a man whom I thought was my friend, but had to learn the hard way he was a shameless professional champion liar and an arrogant cheat. He was wasting my time, being illegally married with two children while playing the field, and committing adultery (Deut. 5:8-20). The courtship started during my high school years and eventually took the precious gift of my virginity causing me to unknowingly also commit adultery.  At the time I was thinking we were having a good time together.  I did not acknowledge it was actually fornicating and I was committing a sin. Now I know having sex outside of the sacred marriage vows is sinful. We are to remain shameless until taken in marriage.  Fornication in today’s society seems to be a very normal life-style, with people no longer caring about the consequences of this action. in fact, it is not recognized as a sin, but as dating and a normal part of courtship. Society as a whole has been duped into believing a lie, that because most don’t personally read their Bibles and The Laws of God, they can get away with this sin. (Hosea 4:6).  Not so. Everyone is being judged everyday according to God’s Law regardless of the lies they choose to believe (Deut. 22:27-29, 1 Corinthians 6:9-10). The Law states that a woman who cannot present tokens of her virginity upon entering into marriage should be stoned (Deut. 22:20-21). If everyone was abiding by The Law, then all the women would be virgins before marriage, and there would be no one to sleep with any of the men, so they would all be virgins as well and there would be no children born out of wedlock, in a loving stable relationship.

This relationship always had its challenges, which required constant mending to keep it going. But it eventually reached a point where we were both so separated from Father by our sinful acts, that there was seemingly no way to continue (Exodus 20:14, 1 Corinthians 6:9-19, 7:2, Ephesians 5:3, 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4, Matthew 5:19, 19:9 , Deut. 22:20-21).

Today I see my actions as a self-centered act for a desire to please and all this made me develop grudges unknowingly against this man (Mark 8:36-37). I did not grow up with parents, I was under the care of a guardian. I now see this as not having enough self-control over the self, thus sin entered in. I can now see my human made these emotional decisions. Obviously this was not Father’s Will for my life. Lesson here after the above failed test is: if the self is not recognized for who it really is, then the bad thoughts enter our minds, we believe it is really us and believe it knows best, instead of listening to our good voice within. Constant training of the human animal needs to take place on a daily basis, dying to self daily” The words in blue are lessons I learned from my Spiritual Guide after my confession.

At the time my thoughts were focused on the broken trust and the pain, and on finding someone else, instead of on what caused the problem and how to solve it, so, without thinking or knowing it, I was on the rebound, looking for love in all the wrong places. That’s a dangerous place to be. Indeed, someone else was found when I joined the University, but it didn’t last long, because I was uncomfortable since he had started demanding sex at an early stage of the relationship, and I could now tell he was the cheating type too and also needy. Due to this, I decided to reconcile with my ex, even when I no longer loved him like before, and he noticed the change and asked me about it. I remember one concerned relative telling me that your heart has refused that man, please don’t force it, because you don’t know what God is protecting you from.  God sometimes speaks to us through others, if we are listening.

Something else happened to me, and it occurred before I met the Truth/Christ/my Spiritual Guide. At this time I was still celebrating the pagan yuletide holidays and was preparing to go home for Christmas. Though I never enjoyed any of it because when celebrations like this took place, invariably I would be plagued with strong cramps, unnecessary headaches, body weakness, unhappiness, etc., and at the time I didn’t understand why. My relatives knew this and they always seemed concerned, because they saw my unhappiness. During this time I moved into my ex’s home district, to work part-time as secretary in the local Catholic Church, which set the stage for a day that is remembered well: 22/12/2014. It was then that a catholic priest almost raped me, but Father/God helped me overcome and escape him, and this horrible threat he posed not just to my body, but to me the spirit-Being (Matthew 16:18, 21, 21:15 23:7-8). All of this was a blessing in disguise, because it was a turning point for me. It was then that I wondered if God really sent these people (priests/religious leaders), and if they truly worked for Him, or if they were working for their selfish stomachs and desires? And if they truly work for Him, like they claimed, why are they all worshipping graven images, etc. (Exodus 20:4)? I always had questions about religion, but was still searching for answers as to why all this was taking place. You don’t have to go to church to be religious and serve God and Christ, in fact, the true definition of the word religion is ‘bonded obligation’ and that obligation is to God (The KING Ruler of The Universe) and His Commandments; Laws; Statutes; Judgments; Economic Policy; Diet; etc. contained in The Torah, which is the name given to the first five books in the Holy Bible – the Books of Moses.  It is seen clearly now the church and all its lies have been designed by satan to lead us down the wrong path, straight into The Fire on the Last Day with satan the deceiver/destroyer.

I had seen enough at the parish already, like young girls mingling with these filthy priests, to know this wasn’t right. Parents’ offerings and tithes going to support the very person who was hurting/stealing their daughter’s and son’s purity, because of the sinful sex practices of their parish priest. Did these parents have any idea how these predators were not only stealing sexual favors from their children, but their very souls as well (Matthew 16:26)?

Thank God he spared me this horror. All I thought I wanted at the time was to have children and a good husband. I took that job just to be near him, but when I caught him cheating and messing up other girls’ lives, lying to them as well, and getting involved with married women, I broke up with him and became emotionally dead, and never involved myself with another man. Little did I know Father was preparing me to receive His truth and my Spiritual Guide/The EXAMPLE (Real Love). The truth I received and meeting the Lord was a clear sign to stay away from what Father rejected for me, because He knows what is good for everyone and what we each deserve. Within a few days of returning home to my relatives, the above questions were answered by reading “The Way home or face The Fire” (TWHOFTF). Father sees when you are ready and He puts the truth in your path; then you have free will choice to accept it or refuse it. He is Amazing!  People are saying it is the MOST important book on the planet and it’s a free download at This extraordinary little book helped me immensely, it gave answers to the above questions and others. It helped me begin to fix my life with Father’s Help. The Book came when it was most needed, in perfect time as Father Promises. As my Spiritual Guide said in Mathew 24:19 there is a time and place for everything under heaven (Ecclesiastes 3). Father knows best and keeps His promises unlike humans.

If you are striving to live by the Bible standard in your life, It doesn’t mean you won’t face a lot of trouble and challenges from society, as many of you already know. But the help, strength and loving guidance to overcome the evil we face will always be there, to see us through, as long as we do our part and keep the Faith and our evil selves under control.

I don’t know whether I was being naive, too trusting or thinking that since I began discovering the truth, nothing bad would happen to me, but one must never let their guard down and become arrogant. When my ex gave me a call and wanted to talk to me, little did I know he wanted to reconcile, despite my interests being totally different from his, having already met a man who was a follower of Christ. I foolishly allowed my ex to come to my place, and instead of talking, he raped me. I remember telling his mother about her son raping me and shockingly, she was in support of him. She said: “What were you thinking, do you think you can defeat a man when he has an urge for a woman?” Back then I knew I would since Father helped me defeat the priest before, and being emotionally dead, but like my Spiritual guide said: “Never underestimate satan”, because he attacks using people we least expect, we need to put on the Whole Armour of God, and have our loins girt about with truth, guarded all the time (Eph. 6:10-18). She added: “I knew you were coming back to cook for my son. I did everything possible to see that you get back with him,” praising herself and confident of her evil deeds. This hurt me, because she thought her witchcraft is better than God, yet claiming to serve God. Who is fooling whom? Christians follow and trust the husband of this woman from such an evil background. She is a very serious and well-known witch, frequently consulting witch-doctors. (Gal 5:20-21). This woman is a preacher’s wife. What insanity. We can see the hypocrisy in a protestant church as well.  I don’t think any lady who is thirsty for spirituality would like the idea of getting married in a family with an evil background full of chaos, envying, witchcraft, and the like, etc., which Father hates.

Taken from TWHOFTF 3:61 You, being really spirit, will never get true and lasting joy, or satisfaction, from animal-pleasures, as nice as they can be. It is self-defeating and a vicious-circle. The more you try, the more you feel you need, and the worse things become. A perfect example of this is nymphomania, where the subject confuses love with sex, which, being animal, does NOT bring true satisfaction and spiritual fulfillment. Satan then (from within) deceives them into thinking, that, if they get enough sex, they will be fulfilled, and they try desperately to get enough sex. Unfortunately, Satan is a liar, and has tricked them, once again, and they run around desperately, in a vicious-circle. The more sex they get, the less fulfilled they feel, so they try even harder and harder, becoming more and more lost; lonely; desperate and confused.

3:62 You are not an animal, you are spirit. Animal pleasures alone will NEVER satisfy your soul’s (your) need for spiritual love, and fulfillment.  This man’s selfish sinful ways continue to hurt me today. How could I trust this man after all I knew about him? Was it the self that wanted to be close to him and caused this to happen to me/my spirit Being? He even told me he had followed my comings and goings, using other people. Was he actually stalking me through these other people? It is now seen the man I attracted was a sexual predator/nymphomaniac. I say sexual predator because he was trying to obtain sexual contact with me and other women all at the same time and in an abusive manner. Sex before marriage, fornication, causes sin in others lives and your own. Taken from TWHOFTF 3:64 Learn to know the difference, between REAL love and animal sex or lust!

When the above incident happened, I asked myself; what’s next? What will happen if I get pregnant by him, before marriage, which seemed was his sole intention. How will others look at me? Already people in and around the workplace were calling me a virgin, and that I was not normal, saying they don’t know what I am waiting for, because they never see the usual text messaging, or courting that goes on with other young singles. Father had blessed me with a relatively simple and sheltered life, which, in turn, helped set me apart from the ways of society and my parents’ examples that conditioned me to be an easy target.

In my stupid mind, out of fear, I allowed the self to take control, and also pressure from others, concerned because they were not seeing me getting involved with any man, and were already asking questions (Acts 5:29). Upon that, I requested of him that because you have done this to me, if you truly love me like you claim, I will only accept marriage to you on one condition. He said name it. I told him if he accepted to follow Christ.

This meant a lot to me, because Christ had really changed my life. The man I was involved with agreed to these conditions, and even wrote to the Lord asking for His approval. Little did I know he was only faking it, just to try to win my heart. I was willing to forget his evil deeds, sacrifice, obey and surrender myself to him, if he truly followed Christ and would humble himself to be taught by The ONLY Teacher.  I knew I would be secure knowing he is learning from the Right Source, and leading me down the right path, like a man should do according to the Bible.

Even when he did that, I still felt within myself he was not the right man for me, because I felt spiritual unrest. Sex without LOVE leaves you feeling worthless. The question was why was I (the spirit Being) so unhappy? And why didn’t I pay attention to the spiritual guidance from within, rather than the human’s desires?  It is remembered well my Spiritual Guide asking me if I loved this man (He was trying to steer me clear of this man but still allowing me my free will choice) and I said, “Yes”, even when I was not sure, because of total confusion within myself.

I was still not pleased, even when his parents arranged for a pre-visit, things seemed not to work out. He lost his job beforehand, which he needed to help make arrangements for our special day. Even the money he fixed in an account was not released despite his efforts to process it early. This was seen as further proof Father/God (showing His signs of disapproval) was still in control and looking out for us. Even when humans think they are in control and don’t need HIM, His Love prevails. My relatives understood the problems and told them to postpone, but his family insisted, thinking I would change my mind, because of the misbehavior of their son, and indeed they were right. I could really begin to feel that Father wasn’t having any of this charade. Intimacy is NOT possible without Spiritual unity. Spiritual unity is only achieved when a man follows Christ, and the woman obeys the man coming together as one, unblemished by sin, into the Bridal Chamber to invite Father into their relationship first, and then consummating the marriage vows.

I set a good spiritual boundary, without knowing it, with conditions that I was going to do a water fast for 3 days, but if Father gave him back his job, we would give Father, through Christ, the first money he received. He agreed, and then played along, faking it all the way. I told him if he should not fulfill his end of the deal, I would end our engagement and refuse to marry him. When he finally did receive his salary, he opened up his clinic instead of staying true to his word. He never provided for me, and I remember my special friend asking if he sent money to support me, which was taken into serious account. Now I know he wasn’t man-enough to even provide for his own child, which he produced from another woman. How he has hurt so many with sex, NOT Love. He claims to love, but instead is selfish in all his ways (Jer. 17:9).

At first, I thought his unwillingness to provide for me was due to his lack of a job, but by this time a very close friend gave me this book entitled “How To Attract A Real Man.” After reading it I realized this man’s character was defiled, and not providing for me was his way of doing things. He was lacking in good husband characteristics, exactly as the book explained. He could not even keep his own word to me, or for that matter not even to our Dear Sweet Lord, which made me so sad. Not only that, but coupled with my things going missing in the house, without any notice and my computer being broken which contained my cherished studies, (Deut 7:2-4), it was realized this man was not a gentleman and had no respect. He was working against the good in my life, and being used to deflect me from my spiritual path (Sura 63, TWHOFTF 3:12).

He was threatening to commit suicide if I broke off our engagement. With that realization, I committed to fast again, and I then had no fear and decided to end the engagement. I then wrote the Lord with sincerity, summarized all the reasons why I decided to end this engagement, and pointed out at least some of this man’s lies to The Lord, since he had made contact with The Lord.  At least I had some evidence from The Lord Himself, in addition to what there was from his own relatives, my own relatives, and his friends, who were concerned how this man was not living up to his words. And guess what the Lord’s response was?

What you have done is okay.”

2 Corinthians 6:14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what

fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion hath

light with darkness?

6:15 And what concord hath Christ with Wickedness? Or what part hath he that

believeth with an infidel?

6:16 And what agreement hath The Temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple

of the Living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in [them];

and I will be their God, and they shall be My people.

6:17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and

touch not the unclean [thing]; and I will receive you,

6:18 And will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be My [adopted] sons and

daughters, saith the Lord Almighty.

Peace be upon you, The Lord.”

My breakup with this man has been led by my Spiritual Guide and His gentle firm guidance and Real Love, which I have experienced (Matthew 11:28-30). In this manner He has gently moved me forward, step by step, sometimes minute by minute, in the right direction, turning my world from upside down to right side up, accomplishing Father’s Will now, and achieving true happiness and Love. I can’t imagine living life without Christ and Father’s direction, I can’t even afford to move without Father/TM’s direction, Life would be meaningless without Them, and I would be a moving corpse, the living-dead, and this is how I felt when I was still stuck in my unhappy relationship with my ex.

But now I feel full of joy and peace. It feels good knowing Father invited me into His spiritual family, and now I am full of hope for a bright future with our Sweet Lord, the only true Love we all have been looking for (Jer. 29:13, Matt. 7:7-8). Look up not down for all the right answers.

Sometimes this new Life feels like living in a dream, and then I thank Father for the reality of this Life, Only He and the Lord make our dreams come true. Spiritual is the real LIFE, and it sometimes feels like a dream. I’m so grateful it has come true. What I had experienced was NOT real Love, but emotional love, fake love this man had for me, all just to satisfy his selfish lust and desires. (1 John 2:16-17, Galatians 5:16-17). Real Love is learned by being in the constant presence of our Father, The King Ruler of The Universe, Who is NOT a human, but a Spirit Being (John 4:24).

Having officially broken off the engagement, I also told a few of The Lord’s loving followers, especially sister Naomi, because I had always told her almost everything in my life. She honestly took her time to forward all the past conversations to the Lord and she helped me clear these things up in my Life. I can’t thank Father/God and my Spiritual Guide and her enough. It was at a crucial time in my life that this book was offered to me as a gift.

I had already read “The Way Home or Face The Fire

and there I found my Lord. Then sister Naomi told me she had always wanted to give me this book, but wasn’t sure if the contents would be well received, and be made a part of my life. My Spiritual Guide, along with her, demonstrating Their Love for me, and not giving up on me helped turn me from what would have been one of the worst mistakes of my human life: marrying an unGodly man (Deut.7:3-4). That helped put me on the narrow path to becoming truly feminine again, which is the only way to attract a real man, one who follows Christ, Who is THE EXAMPLE (John 14:6). Today I believe the wealth of becoming spiritually feminine is a priceless gift.

I have other sisters and brothers, who have also stood by my side, and talked through the challenges with me in this battle against attracting a wrong man. I was comfortable with them, because they showed me Love and we were on the same spiritual journey. Spiritually very committed ladies and gentlemen, never condemning or judging me (Matthew 7:1-6), but instead always showing loving concern, and encouraging me in the right direction. I may not know the others, but God willing we will get to know one another, one step at a time, as we keep practicing the Lord’s Love through teamwork and sharing our experiences. Isn’t that the real Love we’re all looking for (1 John 4:7-21)?

In summary, I realized that I had attracted the wrong kind of man into my life, which kept me from attracting the real man that I longed for, and needed to remain on the Strait and Narrow Way that leads to Life. But, with the help of Christ, Father (God) and the KEY to the Bible, TWHOFTF, along with this eye-opening book called “How to Attract a Real Man”, and all my special friends, I am now hopeful this dream will be achieved when both of us, my soul-mate and I, are ready to come together as one.

Here is a defensive technique I normally use against unGodly men. “I have become too expensive/unaffordable for anyone. Any man that asks for my hand in marriage cannot afford me now, unless they accept and Love Father and my Spiritual Guide, and prove they too desire to spend time with Them: The Source and Example of True Love. If you are not spending time with The Source of True Love already, how would someone trust you and your motivations? No amount of worldly wealth can buy true, spiritual Love. Our Spiritual Guide and Father in heaven are worth more than anything this world has to offer. How can anyone risk exchanging Spirituality for money (Matt. 16:26)?

It’s madness and compromising one’s integrity to exchange Immortality for worldly materialism/pleasures (Matt. 6:24). After all, when one is obeying Father and doing His Will, He provides everything we need. We can still enjoy marriage, and being under the leadership of real men, accomplishing a marriage that is like heaven on Earth, full of joy, peace, true happiness and Love. A couple that champions Father’s Will in their daily activities and thoughts, thanking and praising Him always, spends their time with Him until we become part of Him again. Isn’t that beautiful? Don’t you want to find and follow the road less traveled?

To find out more on this subject please read and digest

Father’s blessings upon us all.

One Love :- )

Follower of Christ

Words of Wisdom from Christ:

The HUGE mistake that women make, is, instead of being themselves, they are taught by Satan the master of illusion*, and learn from him to pretend to be something they are not, with make-up, jewellery, and fancy-revealing clothes, and that they are to be worshipped instead of God, as being super-hot and sex-goddesses. And this is all sold to men via Hollywood and Television, and other forms of media, including glossy men’s magazines and newspapers, from cradle to grave, to brainwash men into what to expect their perfect woman to be, which are impossible aspirations for women to live up to.

Then, after they are married and the goddess illusion is broken, and the man sees what they are really like, they feel that they have been deceived, which they have, and they resent their wives for doing this to them, and trapping them with a false reality, and the relationship becomes toxic, abusive, and falls apart into divorce, especially if the women are women’s libbers and disrespectful; talking back and arguing, instead of being quiet, loving, feminine and obedient.

No, decent man would abuse a loving, feminine, OBEDIENT wife.

* Sura 31:30. That is because “I AM” is the (ONLY) Reality, and because whatever else they invoke besides Him is Falsehood (and therefore Fantasy/Illusion); and because “I AM”,- He is the Most High, Most Great.

How to Spiritually Beat Depression

11 Nov

by Ruth Pippen, guest writer

Depression stems from long periods of being frustrated that you haven’t gotten your own way, or that you are all alone, even in a crowd, or that no-one understands you, etc.

Depression hurts you and others around you.

Why are you depressed? Who is behind the depression? And what can you do about it, to eliminate it forever? Depression is a state of fear. Depression is the impression left by fear. It is caused by a lack of faith and knowledge of God and doing His Will – (Hosea 4:6; Matt. 6:10).

How does depression happen, especially when you are a God-fearing man or woman? Has anyone ever told you, “We are ALL in a spiritual war, a spiritual war within our selves?” (Psalm 23, Matt. 10:38, Luke 9:23, Gal. 2:20, Rom. 8:1-8)

Romans 7:21-25
I find then a law, that, when I would do good, evil is present with me.
7:22 For (the Being part of me, inside,) delights in The Law of God:
7:23 But I see another law in my (human) members, warring against the law of my mind (Being), and bringing me into captivity to the law of sin which is in my (human) members.
7:24 O wretched man that I am! Who shall deliver me from the body of this death?
7:25 I thank God through Jesus Christ our Lord. So then with the mind (Being) I myself serve The Law of God; but with the flesh (human) the law of sin.

Organized religions will tell you to fight satan, the temporary prince of this world, but they do not tell you how, because they are charlatans (2 Cor. 11:13-15) and do not know. Do they ever tell you the truth, that the real war against satan, which MUST be fought and overcome, is within each and every one of us (Matt. 16:23, Rev. 2:7-11, 2:17, 2:26, 3:5, 3:12, 3:21, 21:7)?

1 Peter 5:8 Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour:

Most human+beings today mistakenly think they are doing what God wants them to do, when in fact they are doing their own selfish will instead. We have all been trained to see everything upside down and backwards, from a worldly, human point-of-view, instead of from a right-side up spiritual point-of-view. Keeping this in mind, please take a look at your priorities first, which should hopefully provide a better idea about what needs to change within you, to rid yourself of depression for good (John 1:1-16). By practicing the four suggestions of defense discussed below, depression can be easily overcome.

Psalm 51:10 Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me.

Ephesians 4:18 Having the understanding darkened, being alienated from the Life of God through the ignorance that is in them, because of the blindness of their heart:

Do you find yourself often wishing things were different, wishing they would hurry up and change, and then intentionally or unwittingly enforcing your own self-will, to effect the changes YOU think need to happen to make you “happy”, instead of simply accepting that the universe is unfolding exactly as it should?

Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but, if you turn your mind to other things, like helping others, it comes and sits softly on your shoulder.

Would you have a problem accepting Father’s Divine Plan and Will for you, if it meant making some significant changes in your life (Matt. 7:21-24, John 5:30, 6:38, 7:17, 9:31)?

Philippians 4:6 Be afraid for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.

Matthew 6:7 But when ye pray, use NOT vain repetitions, as the heathen [DO]: for they think that they shall be heard for their much speaking.
6:8 Be NOT ye therefore like unto them: for your Father knoweth what things ye have need of, BEFORE ye ask Him.
6:9 After this manner therefore pray ye: Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be Thy name.
6:10 Thy Kingdom come. Thy Will (God’s Will – ask Him) be done in earth, as [it is] in heaven.

The first step to solving any problem is recognizing and admitting it exists. Constantly wanting to change others, instead of yourself, and not being accepting of your God-given circumstances can cause frustration.

1 Thessalonians 5:18 In every thing give thanks: for this is the Will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.

How could it not be frustrating, to repeatedly ponder on a fantasy (lie), over an extended period of time, about the lessons and tests you’ve been given, thinking you know better than God how to orchestrate your life? Thoughts like: “Why am I having to go through this?” or “when is this ever going to change, the way I want it to?” should be immediately recognized for what they are: unfulfilled self-will causing self-pity. The sooner one recognizes these thoughts for what they are, and from whom they originate (self-pity is a dark, satanic, self-centered emotion – Jer. 17:9; Proverbs 23:7), the sooner one can cut them off, instead of allowing them to grow into a depressed state of mind.

Isaiah 41:10 Fear thou not; for I [am] with thee: be not dismayed; for I [am] thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of My Righteousness.

Wouldn’t it be a far more productive use of time, to ponder what can be done to genuinely help others—beginning with the one thing we actually have control over: our selves—rather than worrying about things we cannot change?

Words of Wisdom: God, please grant me the serenity, to accept the things that I can not change; the courage, to change the things that I can change; and the Wisdom, to always know the difference between the two.

Thinking back-to-front, like humans do, causes frustration, because we have not gotten our way. We are so busy getting what we want, when we want it, in this world of instant gratification that we forget to ask God what He wants (Matt. 6:10) us to do, much less have the patience to wait for His answer. Just remember, EVERYTHING happens for a Divine reason; it is up to each of us to have the faith to find out why. It is the faithful search for that Divine reason (the journey) that brings us joy, which is the remedy to all depression.

The First Line of Defense

The only way to overcome the frustration is to take control of your own mind, by earnestly seeking to find out what Father’s Will is for your life, and then lovingly and gratefully accept it. The FIRST STEP to knowing what Father’s Will is for YOU, is to draw closer to Him, get to know Him for the Father He wants to be (John 17:3), and ask Him. That begins by following His instructions found in the Bible (Basic Instruction Before Leaving Earth) and by following His 12 Commandments, and The Law found in The Torah, the first five books of the Bible.

Mark 12:29 And Jesus answered him, The First of all the Commandments [is], Hear, O Israel; The Lord our God is one Lord:
12:30 And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength and serve Him ONLY: this [is] the first COMMANDment.

The 12 Commandments

There’s a whirlwind of never-ending satan-inspired man-made thoughts swirling around inside people’s heads, at any given moment. It’s the constant self-absorbed thinking about what we want, how we want it, who’s going to give it to us, when it’s going to happen, and why it isn’t happening fast-enough, going on in our minds, which is robbing us of our peace and joy, even though most of those things would actually be wrong for, and harmful to us and those around us. It MUST stop. Those random thoughts are NOT you (the real you, the spirit-Being within), nor are they from Father (God). How could anyone possibly think straight, with a storm constantly raging inside one’s own mind? And yet most in this world choose to live their lives being sucked into that emotional storm, day in and day out, being blown wherever the storm takes them, without ever realizing it’s leading them to their eventual destruction (Isaiah 3:12).

Malachi 3:18 Then shall ye return, and discern between the righteous and the wicked, between him that serveth God and him that serveth Him not.

The quiet place of refuge within your own mind is, unsurprisingly, like in a cyclone, in the eye of the storm (Psalm 91). That’s where it is calm and peaceful and possible to be at ONE with Father. Learn to retreat into that safe, secret place with Father, whenever you begin to feel the storm and pressures of the world. Eventually you’ll never want to leave it.

John 10:30 I and [my] Father are at one.

John 17:21 That they all may be one; as Thou, Father, [art] in me, and I in Thee, that they also may be one in Us: that the world may believe that Thou hast sent me.
John 17:22 And the glory which Thou gavest me I have given them; that they may be one, even as We are One:
John 17:23 I in them, and Thou in me, that they may be made perfect in one; and that the world may know that Thou hast sent me, and hast loved them, as Thou hast loved me.

By pausing to establish that telepathic connection with Father, you are letting Him know that, of your own free-will, you want Him to be in control of your life, NOT you. Is He not the Best of Planners? Are His Ways not Perfect?

Psalm 18:30 [As for] God, His Way [is] Perfect: the Word of the “I AM” is tried: He [is] a buckler/shield to all those that trust in Him.

By loving Father with all your heart, with ALL your mind, soul, and strength, above everything else, and seeking to do ONLY His Will, you will be getting rid of your self-will, one blow at a time. That all-important pause, to put Him first in our lives, is the necessary first step toward actually obeying the First COMMANDment, upon which all the other Commandments hang (Mark 12:29-31).

Also, by pausing to receive His Guidance, before speaking or doing anything, you will be practicing a healthy, Loving relationship/friendship with the Truth, HIM, The King and Ruler of The Universe.

Psalm 46:10 Be still, and know that I [am] God: I will be exalted among the heathen, I will be exalted in the earth.

The Second Line of Defense

Learn to THINK.

Henry Ford is quoted as having said: “Of all the jobs, thinking is the most difficult, which is why so few choose to do it.” Amazingly, none of us seem to know what it means to really think, because the prince of this world (Lucifer/Satan/The Devil) has trained us not to do so, and has filled our minds with his unceasing nonsense. Where is the best place to think? In a calm, peaceful place: that place of refuge within your own mind. Control, Control, Control, your thoughts, staying calm at all cost, will allow you to think, hear Father’s voice, instead of satan’s, and have a knowing. If emotions come, and they all come from satan, just say to your self, I am not listening to that today, I am NOT going to entertain those thoughts (Psalm 23; Eph. 6:12-18).

Philippians 4:8 Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things [are] honest, whatsoever things [are] just, whatsoever things [are] pure, whatsoever things [are] lovely, whatsoever things [are] of good report; if [there be] any virtue, and if [there be] any praise, think on THESE things.

How could anyone actually have time to think about anything, when they’re BUSY* rushing around trying to get this or that job done as quickly, and thus as poorly, as possible, so they can get to the next one (possibly doing the first job over again, because they rushed and made a mess of it) and rush through it the same way, in an endless, repeating cycle? We need to learn to STOP, and think everything through very carefully, first, BEFORE acting on it, otherwise we’re just going through the motions, actually we are sleep-walking inside our human body (Dan. 12:2), and are at the mercy of the emotional storm. Here lies the danger.

* BUSY – Being Under Satan’s Yoke.

1 Thessalonians 5:6 Therefore let us NOT sleep (spiritually), as [do] others; but let us watch and be sober.

Are you always looking to the future in fear, or trying to re-live the past, (you can’t step twice on the same piece of water), never having your mind fully focused on where you are and what you are doing, and thus making a mess, or breaking things that you then have to clean up, or repair, or replace? Wouldn’t it be better to stay awake and focus fully and not make a mess and break things, so you don’t have to clean up the mess, or work to earn the money to replace what Satan the Destroyer (Rev. 9:11) made you break? Looking to the future or the past is what takes us away from Father’s presence and spiritual guidance, which are only available in the present moment, and only available to the meek and HUMBLE (Prov. 22:4, Matt. 5:5, 12:30, James 3:13, Philippians 2:3-11).

Matthew 23:12 And whosoever shall exalt himself shall be abased; and he that shall humble himself shall be exalted.

Every word we speak and every action we take BEGINS as a thought. Logically, if one can learn to control their thoughts, that is to consciously choose good thoughts (speaking and listening to Father/GO(o)D ) over evil ones (listening to and obeying satan/Liar/Devil), then the words and actions that come from those GOOD thoughts will naturally put our lives on a different, healthier and more productive, joyful path. How could it not?

Your mind IS the real you, the spirit-Being within. Why not share it with Father all the time, receiving His GOOD and LOVING Guidance every step of The Way? Every moment not spent with Father—the Source of All Love and Joy—is actually spent listening to satan, the source of all fear, hatred and depression (John 3:16, 14:15, 21-24, Eph. 2:4, 1 John 2:3-7).

1 John 4:8 He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God IS love (NOT emotion).

It’s really that simple, but it isn’t always easy. We MUST wake-up spiritually and stay mentally awake at all times, to remain calm and unswayed by human emotions, which satan uses to control us (John 3:1-13), (Eph. 4:14).

Enoch 92:19 Who is there of all the children of men, capable of hearing the voice of The Holy One WITHOUT emotion?

Satanic selfishness is the root cause of depression. It therefore should be self-evident, that, to get rid of depression forever, requires ridding our minds of satanic influence and his continually selfish, evil thoughts (On the British Coat of Arms it states: “Honi soit qui mal y pense”, which is old French and is one of God’s rules concerning His advice and Divine-Justice, and which means, “Evil be to him who thinks it”).

Galatians 6:7 Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, THAT shall he also reap.

The beginning of all true Wisdom is HUMILITY, humbling our selves, fearing Father and His almighty Power is the beginning of Wisdom (Psalm 53, 111:10, Isa. 64:6, Rom. 3:10-12).

Proverbs 9:10 The fear of the “I AM” [is] the beginning of Wisdom: and the Knowledge of the holy [is] Understanding.

James 4:10 Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and He shall lift you up.

Admitting we don’t know better than Father how to run our own lives, and acknowledging Father ALWAYS knows best, because He knows EVERYTHING, is the first step to correcting our errant thinking and behavior. Stop worrying (Luke 12:22-34) about what everyone else is doing wrong (Luke 6:41-42). Focus your thoughts on your own shortcomings instead. He knows us better than we know ourselves, ask Father what YOU can do to change yourself for the better. Then be ready to patiently listen and willing to make the necessary improvements that you need to do, as if your life depended upon it. It does (Matt. 16:27)!

Learn to think/pray/talk with Father without ceasing (1 Thess. 5:17)! Filled to overflowing with His Love and Understanding, how could anyone ever be depressed (Psalm 23, John 16:22)?

Romans 15:13 Now the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that ye may abound in hope, through the power of the Holy Spirit.

Discipline is the hallmark of discipleship. A disciplined mind will help produce a disciplined body and life.

Matthew 28:19 Go ye therefore, and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them with the Holy Spirit: in the name of the Father, by the teachings of the Son.

Job 36:10 He openeth also their ear to discipline, and commandeth that they return from inequity.

You’ll be amazed at how your daily marching-orders will materialize, if you put your faith/trust in Father and His Plan, instead of letting your self try to plan ahead for you. Never doubt His plan for each of us, and the protection only Father can provide, as He’s promised to do, IF we are doing His Will.

There is a plan for your lives that, for completion, depends upon the faithful work of each day. You frustrate that plan if you leave today’s task incomplete, while you bestir and fret yourself over the past, or tomorrow’s happenings.

Matthew 6:34 Take therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself. Sufficient for the day [is] the evil thereof.

The frustration of the Divine Plan is man’s tragedy.

The Third Line of Defense

Embrace discipline to help train your spiritual ears to hear Father (Prov. 3:12). Practice makes perfect, so why not practice telepathic communication with Father all day long? How else can any of us hope to hear Father’s small, still and sweet voice of truth and reason (Matt. 13:9), unless we practice turning to Him for everything, with clear minds that are ready to be filled with His Love and Wisdom and Understanding (Matt. 9:16-17)?

Every thought, decision or endeavor provides an opportunity for training (2 Cor. 5:17). You’ll be absolutely amazed at what Father will show you, if you’re receptive and devoted to doing only His Will. But you have to be ready to relinquish all allegiances to earth’s and your heart’s desires.

Jeremiah 17:9 The heart [is] deceitful above all [things], and desperately wicked: who can know it?

Keeping pace with the world as it rushes by is not The Way. You will also have to train your mind to stop listening to that loud, obnoxious, nagging voice inside your head, that you used to think is you (but is really satan within, trying to distract you and nagging you to get you to do his will). Hasn’t satan already wasted enough of your time getting you to listen to him and his lies and nonsense for the past few thousand years (Prov. 18:2)?

Start each day with a clean slate by taking out the trash. Prepare your mind a blank page for the day and Father to write upon. Give satan the boot. Stop listening to his depressing drivel (Isa. 30:10). The quicker one recognizes and rids oneself of satanic, selfish thoughts, the more time there is to learn to listen to Father’s Good voice, which we all have inside us, if only we exercise faith and patience, by turning inward, to listen for His in-tuition.

The Fourth Line of Defense

Loving acceptance is the key to Divine Revelation. Tireless effort to know and do only Father’s Will always pays its dividends. It will reshape lives, beginning with our own. How could it not?

Jeremiah 29:11

Accepting His plans, and resting assured that He is The Best Planner, will produce the Holiness and True Happiness (Joy) that each of us so desire.

Sura 8:30 Remember how the Unbelievers plotted against thee, to keep thee in bonds, or slay thee, or get thee out (of thy home). They plot and plan, and “I AM” too plans, but the Best of Planners is “I AM”.

How could anyone be frustrated or depressed in Father’s Service? You don’t need the world to accept or reward you. All anyone needs is to know that Father’s Will has been done, serving the greater, common good. Loving others first, love thy neighbor as thy self, in other words put them first, as the Scripture Commands, taking the focus off of our selfish heart’s desires.

Jeremiah 17:9 The heart [is] deceitful above all [things], and desperately wicked: who can know it?

Mark 12:31 And the second [is] like, [namely] this, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. There is none other COMMANDment greater than these.

That is how we can free ourselves from the self-created prison and depression in our own minds, caused by seeking to serve our own selfish interests and heart’s desires, instead of what’s best for all concerned.


Satanic selfishness is the root cause of depression. We therefore MUST clear our minds of all satanic influence and his continually selfish, evil thoughts; replacing them with thoughts of Love, and how to serve the greater, common good, as Christ exemplified.

1 Corinthians 10:21 Ye cannot drink the cup of the Lord [the cup of “Self”- sacrifice – Matt. 26:42], and the cup of devils [selfishness]: ye cannot be sharers of the Lord’s table, and of the table of devils.

If we seek FIRST the Kingdom of God and HIS Righteousness, everything else we need will be provided (Matt. 6:33-34). There is no need to worry about tomorrow; instead stay focused on the moment, doing everything possible to fight evil everywhere it is found, starting within yourself. If you have everything you need, and God’s Loving Purpose mapped out for you on a daily basis, there is no place for selfishness and depression to gain a foothold (James 3:16).

Sura 2:216 Fighting is prescribed for you, and ye dislike it. But it is possible that ye dislike a thing which is good for you, and that ye love a thing that is bad for you. But God knoweth, and ye know not (which is which).

Find the joy in perfect planning, which naturally comes through spiritual converse with Father. It is through this connection with Him that He can transfer His Love, Wisdom, Understanding, Joy, Peace, Patience, longsuffering, gentleness, Safety and Security to His attentive, appreciative and receptive (adopted) children (Gal. 5:22). Where the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness and faith, then fear, hatred and depression simply cannot exist. Faith (trust in Father, and accepting He knows what’s best for all of us) and Love drive out all fear.

1 John 4:19 He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God IS love (NOT emotion).

Father plans for you and what you have need of, before you need it, or even know you’re going to need it (Jeremiah 1:5). He is the best friend any one can have 24 hours a day. Live WITH Him, in the moment, to free yourself from all fear, including depression. Only then will you be able to LIVE LIFE to the fullest. This is real JOY.

None of these things being shared would be possible without Father’s Greatest Gift (Rom. 5:15-18, 6:23, Eph. 4:7): His Son, Prince Michael, Christ, Who has now given us the KEY to understanding the BIBLE, as promised (Rev. 2:17, 10:7-10) That KEY is the little book/white stone – “The Way home or face The Fire”, available as a free gift to the world at This is the ONLY Survival Plan that will work, and is the cure for all ills.

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Who is the ‘Self’ and How it Can Wreak Havoc in your Life

As you read on, hopefully you will be able to see how the ‘self’ can delude, twist and use you with all its evil ways to manipulate your life, while pretending to be your best friend.

We were married for 25 years, while building memories together, loving each other the best way we knew how, it got to the point of my knowing something had to give. Life had to be more than this, getting up each morning to the same ol’ routine. I was not awakening in the morning looking forward to discussing what Father wants to teach both of us today (remember, the man is the leader). Instead, we both did our chores for the day, only coming together to have an outing; going down to the marina; or walk around seeing all the beautiful yachts; or going inside the local thrift shops together; or to just talk together, etc. We always ate breakfast, lunch and dinner together, when he wasn’t gone working on projects. Of course, we met in the middle and talked with each other during the day, but, in the end, went back to our chores. I knew there was something missing, but didn’t know exactly what it was then, but I do now.

Fast forward to today and learning about true Spiritual Love, learning one can only learn to Love correctly, if they are constantly in the presence of Father. I finally came to a place in my life where I had to ask myself: How can I say I am in Love with my husband, if he doesn’t possess and follow Christ’s example and teachings? For a long time I believed he did have Christ in his life, i.e., knowing his grandmother, and how she lived, and being told of their past, since his grandparents were the ones who brought him up. Eventually, when it got to the point of not being able to talk about Christ, without his hairs on his chest standing up, it was then realized Christ wasn’t in his life, as was falsely believed before. I was the main one who read the Yoda/devotion in the morning and evening. When he did read, it was quick and without meaning. At mealtimes, I said the prayer most of time, but when he did pray out loud (Matthew 6:6) it was also quick and without meaning. These things have to not only be read, but lived.

When I say love, I mean real love, not an emotional infatuation, fake love, like the world teaches. I have now learned human love is loving what the other person does for you, a fleeting counterfeit love. Spiritual Love is laying down your life for the other person, every day, helping them spiritually. With the help of my Spiritual Guide and His wonderful words of Wisdom, I decided to change the environment for a bit. So I packed up my car with what was thought would be necessary for a short while, under the pretense of going to visit relatives. I never did let him know that something was missing in our marriage. I now know the missing piece was that Christ/God was not at the helm, as He should have been, as the Bible teaches. If we had talked it out, the outcome could have been confrontational. I don’t know, but at least he would have known there wasn’t true happiness: something was wrong. I so regret not speaking with him, before I left. I know now that Christ/God was not the one leading my husband. Because of his amazing arrogance, thinking he didn’t need anybody reigning over him, because he’s a know-it-all, how could it be the true love I was looking for in our marriage, if Christ wasn’t in his life?

I truly didn’t think it would take that long. With my being gone for such a long time, even though he continued to coax me to come back, I just hoped he would come to his senses, realize something was wrong, and actually ask me why I wasn’t coming back to him. Instead, he was oblivious to what was happening. He presumed he did no wrong, arrogance beyond belief, blaming me for everything. There was also my own arrogance, of knowing he would miss me and thinking he would ask me what happened. I wasn’t even aware I was arrogant, but Father was showing me my true colors, that I needed to get rid of my arrogance and trying to make things happen my way, and not accepting what Father’s Will was for me. I needed to become more responsible for myself, and not want the instant gratification I had always been given upon asking. I know now that instant, self-gratification was actually hurting my Spirit Being, by him giving me more that I asked for. I loved this instant, self gratification he always gave. Why would I want to give that up?

I first went to my son’s house and visited with him and his wife. Unknown at the time, they were having underlying issues too, for the same reason as me and my husband, and most other couples as well. While staying at their home, keeping it clean, taking care of animals and cooking, a binder was put together of various studies that interested me, such as Codes found in the Bible, information on the Crucifixion, God’s Diet, Prophetic Route, who is JAH (see Psalm 68:4), etc. In front of the binder was inserted the words to the song; Change My Heart Oh God. The first few lines go like this – Change my heart Oh God, Make it ever true, Change my heart oh God, May I be like You. You are the Potter, I am the clay, Mold me and make me, This is what I pray. On the back of the binder was inserted the Scriptures from The Book of Jeremiah 18:1-6. My ‘self’ was constantly telling me to go back home, my spirit-being asked: to what though, the same thing? The ‘self’ seems to be constantly leading you astray, which is why you have to take up your cross of ‘self’-sacrifice daily (Luke 9:23). It is so bad, you must constantly be on the lookout for how your actions will affect not only you, but others around you, far and near.

At the time, inserting the song on the front and Scriptures on the back, was my way of asking Father to change the heart of my husband, from a heart of stone to a heart of flesh (Ezekiel 11:19), to find Christ and start being the leader that I always wanted, but, little did I know, I was actually asking Father to change my own heart, which He definitely did.

Since the stay with my son and his wife wasn’t working, I left to go and stay with my sister and her husband for a short while. Before arriving at my sister’s house, I stopped at a store to buy a page of hearts to be placed on the page, Change my heart O God. After about a week, it was apparent they both definitely had different beliefs, and tried to pull me into directions (their ‘self’ actually) I knew was wrong, i.e.: buying another car and going into debt, saving for this holiday and that. The ‘self’ was constantly pulling at me to go down the path of destruction, whether it be to go into debt, or go back home, to what I had left. Neither of these visits worked well, my son’s or sister’s. By listening to my Spiritual Guide and His words of Wisdom, God’s Magical Mystery Tour led me to a friend’s house, where I could be helpful with her situation. Little did I know this is where Father was planting me, with someone who was like-minded, and who had the same morals and beliefs as I did. I felt we had known each other forever, which actually we did through reincarnation. I made the trip down to her house, after accepting this was Father’s Will for me, and eventually it became my home as well.

I arrived with such anger, frustration, depression, self-pity and fear inside, which is the ‘self’ coming out in its full glory and force, all of the self’s ominous ways. The self was giving me fits with its bad and many conglomerations of emotions. One day, it was so bad with all these emotions surrounding me (like a hurricane really), it became quite uncomfortable for both my special friend and myself. So uncomfortable, it instigated a “garage talk” out of Loving concern for my well Being. She told me how the “self” was overtaking me/my spirit Being, with all the emotions above, and it/self needed to be stopped, NOW. Her concern was my ‘self’ was going to completely take over and was going to drag me back to what I left.

After my arrival, it was soon discovered there was ongoing evil taking place in the form of a law enforcement case. When this was discovered, the self did not, in any way, want to help or take part in helping fight this evil. I’ve been there, (working in the past for law enforcement), done that, and didn’t want to do that again: how arrogant on my part. By not taking part in this, how I hurt so many people, and how sorry I am for that, at that time though, this was the path I chose. Today, I can say truthfully that every chance I get, I do take part in fighting this evil, whether it be sending out emails, going to the courthouse, or just having a shoulder when needed.

The garage talk was when the truth really came out about who the “self” was, and how all these dark emotions were absolutely engulfing my human and spirit-being, trying its best to convince me to go back to my husband. It kept telling me I didn’t need to do all these chores around here; that I could go back to what I was used to – instant gratification and doing what I wanted, when I wanted.

It took a long time for my spirit to accept the Truth about the self, how deceptive it is, and how it pretends to be your friend, by telling you what it wants you to hear, but not the Truth. With all the self’s above emotions inside whirling around like a hurricane, and never seeming to stop, I must admit that it was a definite roller-coaster-ride, that wasn’t pleasant at all. I was very slothful; didn’t want to work; just do the necessary things around the house. This is what I was used to and didn’t want to change. It took about 2 years to even begin to come out of this whirlwind. All in all, it took a total of almost 3 years, before I started to really see the Truth. This was a great feeling and certainly started to bring harmony into my life and surroundings. In my opinion, the only way to step outside of this whirlwind is with determination and Father’s/TM’s help, which will win your freedom back. It is so true, the Truth will set you free (John: 8:23).

“It took a true friend to put up with me and endure those horrid 3 years, and what I must have put her through every day. That’s true friendship that is only possible with Father’s help. I hope you can all find that kind of friend.”

The satan within (the ‘self’ again) still tries to pull me away, and go back to what I left, but with the determination previously mentioned, it won’t happen. I was angry at God for not making things the way I wanted and thought they should be: thinking I knew best what was good for me. I actually didn’t even know I was angry at God, until I started writing about my feelings. God is certainly not the one to be angry at, when He is so compassionate and loving, and wants to help in the best way possible not only for us, but for everyone. I was actually mad at my husband for not changing, which led into self-pity and certainly fear of the unknown – what was going to happen next? Alone again? I (the self/satan really telling me all this), certainly did not want to participate in any of the chores that needed to be done at the ranch. There came a time when I knew the car title needed to be changed to this state, change my address and make it permanent, talk about hard. Please see – this is a wonderful video on Irrational Fear made by TM. It was hard to deal with all these emotions, but, with Father and TM’s help, and all my special friends, I began to “see”, finally after 2 ½ years, maybe 3 or so living here, just a little bit of the real culprit, the “self”. I now see we were unequally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion hath light with darkness?

6:15 And what concord hath Christ with Wickedness? Or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel?

6:16 And what agreement hath The Temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the Living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in [them]; and I will be their God, and they shall be My people.

6:17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean [thing]; and I will receive you,

6:18 And will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be My [adopted] sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty.)

Eventually, this change that was needed started to happen. I began to “see” that my husband had his own free-will choice, whether to follow Christ or not. This was very hard to accept and swallow, to say the least. I certainly played my part, by not pointing him back in the right direction, back towards God. Not doing as much cooking as I should have, just making sure we had three square meals a day. Trying new recipes, filling the house with the aroma of homemade bread or whatever, very seldom happened. I kept the house clean, but probably not as clean as it should have been. I wish we had studied The Law together or even read and lived both of them together, but we stayed in our separate rooms, except when time came to eat together, or have outings, as mentioned above. We certainly talked with each other when we wanted a break, but it just wasn’t what it should have been. We both loved to sail, but he did most of the sailing. So it’s not like we were never together, but the one thing, in my opinion, which is so important, we didn’t study The Word together, or talk about Christ/God. Over time, his arrogance and listening to the bad voice (the ‘self’/satan), thinking he knew it all, (actually the self/satan again deceiving him) overtook him. We now live both estranged in separate homes, in different states. He was asked to give me a Bill of Divorcement but, to this day, that hasn’t happened. I constantly continue to pray for him, for him to wake-up and ‘see’ who his ‘self’ really is, and how it pretends to be his best friend, and how it absolutely raises havoc. Have you heard the saying; You are your own worst enemy? The human you are inhabiting is your spirit-being’s and its own worst enemy (the satan within and around you). No photo description available.

The chores are now looked upon as teachings and lessons that needed to be learned, i.e. cooking, cleaning, chores which are now done on a daily basis – cleaning, taking care of animals/feeding them, mowing the yard as needed, weeding in the garden – my goodness, the list goes on. Oh, I still make mistakes, we all do, but strive to be perfect as our Father Who is in Heaven, is perfect.

I continue to pray my husband digs himself out of this pit, dark hole, finds Christ and starts to follow Him. Up to this point, as far as I know, that hasn’t happened. Maybe it will someday, but I have had false hope for so long, it’s time to move on.

I also have learned everything happens for a reason. During the last few years of my husband and I being together, he shared the little book with me called, “The Way Home or face The Fire”. The link is https:/ which, upon reading from beginning to end, has literally changed my life, for the good, but not his, because he only read it and spoke about it, but didn’t digest and live it (Revelation 10:9 And I went unto the angel, and said unto him, Give me the little book. And he said unto me, Take [it], and eat it up; and it shall make thy belly bitter, but it shall be in thy mouth as sweet as honey.

This book is free to the whole world, and a must read for everyone; the title is self-explanatory. This book was written in 40 days, does that tell you anything about who the author is?

Ladies, if you feel God wants to take you on His Magical Mystery Tour, please listen to Him and follow His Will, not your own ‘self’-will (Matthew 6:10). I really encourage you to set Spiritual Goals/Healthy Boundaries and stick to them, no matter the cost, get determined and don’t waiver. March on soldier.