Dr. Marie N. Robinson’s 1958 book, The Power of Sexual Surrender, explains that women need to surrender to a loving man in order to have a satisfying orgasm. By encouraging women to become “strong”, “independent” and wary of men, feminism is blocking their sexual fulfillment. As result, women become frustrated, angry, and compensate by becoming masculine.
In their crusade to destroy European Christian civilization, Cabalists (satanist Jews and Freemasons, i.e. Communists) exploit every division. When they couldn’t foment class war, they turned woman against man.
Under the guise of women’s, gay and tranny “rights,” heterosexuals are victims of a vicious satanic attack on their human identity. They are being re-engineered and they don’t even know it. A woman’s love of husband and child is divine. Only demonically possessed people would destroy it.
“The foundation of the Christian family is the sacrament of matrimony, the spring of all domestic and public morals. The anti-Christian societies [i.e. Illuminati] are opposed to the principle of home. When they have destroyed the hearth, the morality of society will perish.” Benjamin Disraeli (Lothair, 1870)
(Revised from July 25, 2015)
by Henry Makow Ph.D.
Marie N. Robinson MD, a Cornell educated psychiatrist devoted her New York City practice to the treatment of frigidity. Her book, The Power of Sexual Surrender (1958) online here, is a revealing study of the feminine psyche. It is out-of-print. Why? It is politically incorrect.
Dr. Robinson says that millions of American women suffer from frigidity. While she explores many different causes, she notes that frigid women universally adopt the feminist view. This view, that a career as a wife and mother is demeaning and men exploit woman, creates an “emotional logjam” which obstructs sexual response and psychological development.
Dr. Robinson writes that a woman’s identity lies in an “essential feminine altruism.” Her self-expression and power are based on making her husband and children her first priority. Similarly, her sexual satisfaction and spiritual fecundity depend on self-surrender.
FEMININE DEVALUATION AND SELF-HATRED
Robinson writes that “to millions of women, hostility towards the opposite sex seems almost a natural law. Although modern women may pay lip service to the ideal of a passionate and productive marriage to a man, underneath she deeply resents her role, conceives of the male as fundamentally hostile to her, as an exploiter of her. She wishes in her deepest heart, and often without the slightest awareness of the fact, to supplant him, to exchange roles with him.” (emphasis mine 56)
Robinson says that if feminism had brought women happiness, the game might have been worth it.
“But it hasn’t been. The game has brought frigidity and restlessness and a soaring divorce rate, neurosis, homosexuality, juvenile delinquency all that results when a woman in any society deserts her true function.” (56)
Dr. Robinson writes that once the emotional “log jam” is removed, a woman’s natural instincts will flow and health will be restored. Essentially this involves “allowing herself to trust her husband in a very deep sense. It means that she finally realizes that she no longer has to fear or oppose his strength, but that she can rely on it to protect her, to give her the secure climate necessary for the full flowering of her femininity.” (153)
For a profound vaginal orgasm, Robinson writes, “the excitement comes from the act of surrender. There is a tremendous surging physical ecstasy in the yielding itself, in the feeling of being the passive instrument of another person…” (158)
On the other hand, the woman who mistrusts her husband’s love and, as a consequence, her own femininity has a “difficult, painful, frenetic” approach to life. She is at war with herself. In bed, she has to feel “in control all the time.”
Dr. Robinson says there is nothing in life more important than love. She believes marriage is the key to human development. The power of love is felt in the world through this relationship.
“Love means, in its very deepest sense union; union between individuals…It is the most basic and profound urge we have and its power for good is illimitable… the lover partner becomes as important as oneself…This fact is why real love never leads to domination or to a struggle for power…” (129)
Robinson says men and women are different by nature. Men are designed for mastery of the external (physical) world, and women for mastery of the internal (spiritual) world and the home. These are not social stereotypes, as feminists argue.
“Women are designed for duties different from those of the marketplace, another kind of stress entirely,” writes Robinson. They “tend to lose their essential womanliness if they stay [in the marketplace] by choice.” (149)
According to Robinson, “the feminist credo thoroughly discredited feminine needs and characteristics and substituted male goals for female goals.”(53)
“The depreciation of the goals of femininity, biological and psychological, became part and parcel of the education of millions of American girls. Homemaking, childbearing and rearing, cooking, the virtues of patience, lovingness, giving ness in marriage, have been systematically devalued. The life of male achievement has been substituted for the life of female achievement.” (55)
The significance of The Power of Sexual Surrender is profound.
By coercing women to abandon their femininity and usurp the male role, feminism throws a spanner in the natural heterosexual mechanism of humanity. Women have been deprived of their natural biological and social role and condemned to loneliness and frustration. Similarly, men are deprived of the role of protector and provider essential to their development and fulfillment.
The triumph of such a wrongheaded ideology, and the suppression of the truth, signifies that control in the world has passed to a malignant force.
Robinson confirms my view that heterosexual union is based on an exchange of female power for male power expressed as love. A woman who seeks power is neutering herself and her husband. She will not receive love from a man whose identity is based on power. She cannot love someone she competes with. He cannot love her. This is the dilemma of feminists today.
As Marie N. Robinson confirms, woman loves by entrusting her power to the right man, her husband. He uses it to champion her interests. Thus she both empowers him and channels male power in a socially constructive direction. A woman’s real power is love, the power of self surrender.
Note: Sex therapist Kim Anami writes: “The game-changing factor that separates the girls from the women (or the clitoris from the vagina) is the ability to open up, drop your guard, and surrender. If you can’t do that, you won’t get there. These deeper, internal orgasms call on the deeper, internal parts of you. Your vulnerability, your authentic self–they need to be present. You can’t hide behind a wall.That’s why these orgasms are less likely to appear in casual sex situations. Or, if you have unresolved issues in the space between you and your partner. If anything is holding you back, you won’t get there.
When I was young in the 1960’s, a man “made love” to a woman.
Sexual intercourse had a sacred archetypical dimension. A woman embraced a man’s spirit represented by his seed. A child was the fruit. Love-making was the sacred ritual of procreation. Children were our organic growth.
Sex was not an end in itself. A man expressed his adoration for his wife by giving her ecstatic pleasure. He “made love” to her. A powerful bond was established on the foundation of their sexual intimacy. But for this to happen, naturally it had to be exclusive.
Most fertile young women are sexually attractive to most men. But anonymous sex is dehumanizing – it’s about fleeting sensual pleasure and mutual exploitation. We are meant to rise above the level of insects.
God is Love. Male-female love is the closest most people will come to God. Satanists promote anonymous sex to pervert love.
WOMEN WANT TO BE ADORED
The “making love” dynamic is deeply ingrained in the human psyche. Women are looking for their Knight in Shining Armour, a man who will devote himself exclusively to her. They need love in order to blossom.
She will surrender her body and soul to such a man. She will follow him.
Men represent the power principle. Women represent love. Men want power. Women want love. Marriage is the exchange of the two: female worldly power for male power expressed as love.
Women’s sacrifice of power provides an example of love that inspires their husbands to love them and sacrifice for their family.
Anonymous sex is humiliating for a woman. The message is clear. The man wants your body; he does not want you.
You are worthless.
If women are possessed by men who don’t love them, they are damaged. Satanists promote it to remove love from the world.
In The Psychology of Women (1944) psychiatrist Helene Deutsch said women are governed by masochistic and narcissistic principles. For sacrificing themselves to husband and children, they want to be adored as Goddesses.
Women need sex as much or more than men. But they can’t be truly satisfied unless they can completely surrender. In the Power of Sexual Surrender, (1958), psychiatrist Marie Robinson writes that for a profound vaginal orgasm, “the excitement comes from the act of surrender. There is a tremendous surging physical ecstasy in the yielding itself, in the feeling of being the passive instrument of another person…” (158)
A woman’s unconditional love is the most precious thing in the world. It’s the wellspring of harmony and happiness. A loving woman is ike the sunrise.
Instead, we’ve been trained to seek ersatz love, sex, a perfect body. But, in the act of love, all women are Perfect 10’s. A perfect body is nothing compared to the tenderness and bliss of a loving face, an expression only her husband sees.
Many women will have sex with you for a price. How many women can love you?
What pleasure can a man get from a woman who is going through the motions? Casual sex is following a banal script that ends with – “boy that was great” when it just leaves everyone feeling restless and empty and degraded. Spiritual hunger can only be satisfied by spiritual food.
Lovemaking is how two people become one. For a woman to sacrifice power, naturally she must trust a man completely. She must have the conditions found in marriage: devotion, fidelity and commitment.
Cabalist magicians attack woman’s trust in men with a drumbeat of domestic abuse, sexual harassment and rape. They teach women to seek power instead of love and become masculine themselves in order to emasculate men.
The Satanists want to destroy the divine heterosexual dynamic that brings love into the world. They want to reengineer the human race to be their domestic animals, i.e. goyim.
We need to stop having sex and start making love again.
Greetings to all, we are glad you are here and hope this finds you well, and in good spirit. I would like to expound on our guest writer’s article: “The Difference Between Advice and Encouragement”, in a way that you can begin to see it in action, from a daily relationship, and how we all either create an upside-down world, or a right-side-up world, based on the outcome of our daily decisions, thoughts, actions (the big and little ones) and what effect they have on our lives, and all those around us.
Many years back I began to imagine being married to a man who was a good man, who would be the leader in the family and take good care of me and his family; something I had not been able to experience in this life at that time, but now realize, I was not a spiritually feminine lady, at that time, and that was why. I dreamed of having a relationship where harmony worked to create a much more peaceful and productive environment, than I was living in at the time. I began by loving myself first, and, as the dream unfolded, I starting to face the obstacles of my past actions and decisions of allowing myself to be used, abused, becoming co-dependent, independent, bossy, etcetera, that had been preventing me from realizing my dream. By first taking an honest look at myself, and what position in the game of life I had chosen, which helped to created the chaos and disharmony in the first place, I faced my fears of not being loved. Knowing this was no way to live, I made a tough decision. Relying on this new knowing I set healthier boundaries, changed body-language and welcomed the change, accepting that this was right and that the dream would be fulfilled. Up until this point in my life all that me, myself, and I, had accomplished was hurting myself, others, and creating an “upside-down world.”
We have all heard the old saying, “love makes the world go ’round” (not sex), contrary to what we all have been taught by today’s upside-down society; sex and Love are not one in the same. Sex without love makes you feel worthless, used and abused. Love points us to The Ruler of The Universe, because He is LOVE. Acknowledging that He created and successfully runs the entire Universe, we should be able to trust Him to teach us how to become good and love one another. Women, if you offer a Real Man sex before marriage he will see this as a big turn off, instead of turn on, and will view you as promiscuous and untrustworthy. If you dress for sex, exposing a lot of skin, tight jeans and low neck tops, etcetera, then your body-language will most likely attract a man who has one thing on his mind, and it is not in either of your best interests. On the other hand, when you become spiritually feminine you will dress demure and feminine, learning how to attract the love of a real man, and enjoy the essence of True love, which you will deserve and enjoy. The wealth of becoming spiritually feminine is obtainable for all women. It is priceless, and I encourage each of you to seek after this special gift, if you don’t already possess it, and are actively practicing it every day. For the most part, our world turns right-side-up, by me being humble and teachable, always asking for my husband’s guidance, because ultimately he Rules over me and has the final decisions on everything. I have learned that my husband is still learning how to be spiritually mature, and makes mistakes too; this is a learning process for both of us. When this happens it is my responsibility to support him in his growth, and encourage him to correct his wrongs according to God’s Commandments, which will reflect his behavior back to him, making this conflict between him and God alone. By doing what is right, we ensure that God will be on our side, providing and protecting us through our husbands, as promised. By acting non-manipulative and submissive you will take yourself out of the conflict, helping him more than if you argue about who is right or wrong, or try to convince a man with Satan’s advice, like Eve did to Adam, which only leads to discord in the relationship. Hopefully, you are now beginning to “see” that by acting spiritually feminine, you have a far greater effect on the relationship. If we want to live a joyful, healthy life, it is important to put God first and foremost in all aspects of our lives, by following His perfect Laws. By doing so, you fall under His promised blessings, where He will never let you down and you will never feel alone. You will always receive His unconditional LOVE, when and IF you are ready to receive it. As we ALL have been told, “Father knows best”, so it seems that The 10+2 Command-ments are a perfect guide, that everyone should follow when making decisions, and taking action, on a daily basis. The word Command-ments means commanded to obey, and they were given to us with our best interest in mind.
A mutual friend, who introduced my husband and I, had been trying for a while to get me to agree to meet him, so she shared many things about him, like his talents and pictures of him, but the one thing that really sparked my interest, because I was not interested in his looks and another bad relationship, was the fact he did not work on the Sabbaths (Saturday) for money. She said he would help people out on that day, if need be, but never charge for it. This made my decision to allow her to give him my number. He later shared with me, that prior to us meeting, while on vacation, he had cried out to God at the top of the mountain, accepting the fact that God had not placed the right woman in his life, accepting instead the solitary life he had been living with God, which he had done for over seven years. When he returned he saw her message, and he waited a while, to be sure he was supposed to call me. After nearly a week, he called me, and that’s when I asked him about his relationship with Christ. Based on his answer, I had some trust in him, before actually meeting in person, publicly, and was now looking for his actions to line up with his words. He invited me to meet him for dinner one Sunday evening. Before ordering I mentioned I might have a beer, which I didn’t, because the thought of finding a man who truly wanted to serve God was important to me, and I did not want to run him off. He kindly replied with compassion in his voice, “Is that what you think you need to be doing with your life?” Although I had drunk alcohol almost every day, up until I met him, that evening was when I stopped drinking. I have never had another drink since, and now I see how I was testing him, to see if he was for real, and he sure was. He suggested we study together on The Sabbaths, which I enjoyed, because he read God’s Holy Word to me, and that is when my desires for alcohol, materialism, sex, vanity, money, power, etcetera began to diminish, and for the first time I felt satisfied inside. The truth is alcohol dissolves our inhibitions to abstain from sinful behaviors. Prior to meeting him, I did not want to drink, but had not been able to stop, even though I had attended church and 12 step meetings.
As the relationship grew, I could see his words lined up with his actions, as he stood firm in his beliefs. He exercised his manhood establishing healthy boundaries for our relationship. One of the greatest demonstration of his love and respect for our Creator, himself and me was when he informed me of his wishes for us to stay out of bed, insisting on saying our marriage vows to God and each other first, and then consummating our marriage on the honeymoon, thereby obeying the First Commandment to Love God first. I agreed, knowing this would take great self-control on both our parts, and we both faithfully kept our word to God and each other. As a result, he surprised me with a white rose, dipped in gold, on our honeymoon night, as a gift/symbol celebrating our purity together. Another way he did not over-step his boundaries with me, was when he knelt down to ask if he could kiss me for the first time, which touched my heart deeply and proved he was a gentleman. I liked this way of creating our world/thinking and felt the true love, that his actions were proving between us. With his masculine love and good examples, I now had hope, a sense of security, which made me feel loved and cherished, as our love grew stronger. Have you ever heard this saying? “YOU are your own worst enemy.” That is the Truth, and until we face these facts our egos will defeat us every time, keeping us from attracting and falling in love with a real man.
Learn to take action, change behaviours and set boundaries, so this kind of man will seek you out, and then you will be able to learn that your greatest power lies in your willingness to be guided by a real man. I faced-down my ego and learned to look to him for everything, especially strength and courage to continue to follow him, and this new way of learning to love each other, that he was teaching me.
When we first started dating, he had been working on a single woman’s residential home for quite a while, and he told me he needed to get finished with it, and move on to others. So he asked me to help him with the work one day, which set the foundation for him to train me to be his help-meet. It was during this time that he would repeat a saying that I did not fully understand, but was willing to learn. He kept repeating it, sometimes on a daily basis, “familiarity breeds contempt”. At the time I was learning how to recognize my feelings and behaviors more, with a sober mind now, a gut feeling if you will, a knowing, and trusting in this guidance. The more he would say this quote, the more I understood and put it into action, being careful to keep our healthy boundaries each day, striving to always be courteous, greeting each other with a kiss and a hug, being polite, putting the needs of others first, before my self, and learning when conflict came, to still do the same.
Through these acts of selflessness the love continued to grow, and I began to understand how to let him lovingly guide me, as our hours turned into days. The time flew by and my world started turning right-side-up. At the time we met, I had also been attending organized religion for years, but when I ask my new best friend to go with me, he said he could not do that, knowing the truth about those organizations, stating, instead, that Christ’s sacrifice on the cross had abolished the priesthood, for all time. He also taught me that Christ is the ONLY teacher we need, and that He warned us about the “Traditions of The Fathers/Elders”, and about not attending the Synagogues (the churches of that day). Then gave me a clear concise answer from the Scriptures for his decision, and all this Truth came together and made perfect sense, as only the Truth does, as to why I was not getting my spiritual needs met in these places. It was at this point in my life that I vowed to stop attending these organizations.
By this time we were not only best friends, but we had fallen in love with each other, spending time together when not working, which led to him asking me to marry him, and without hesitation, I knew I was in true love with him, and convinced he was my soul-mate. So I said, “Yes”. He made the announcement formal, after getting the approval from my dad and his mom, followed by an engagement-ring surprise at The Grace Ranch (our future home together), and a special just the two of us dinner. We then agreed on a date and decided our marriage vows were very important to us, and agreed we wanted to be married by a pastor who would marry us under God’s Royal Laws of Liberty, not the state’s licensing, as it used to be, since the establishment of this country. Keeping an open mind, he said it made sense to first ask the pastor where I had attended church. This pastor would not make an appointment for us, because we were not taking their marriage counseling, which confirmed to me, my new fiancé’s earlier words of truth about organized religion, and how it contravenes the actual Word in Scripture. This encouraged me to cancel my membership, by written notice, in an email full of Truth, to the pastor, about him and his 501c3 corporate business. I’ve not looked back, knowing all these decisions have been good for us both. Have you ever heard that the Truth mixed with lies is still a lie, even if the majority believes it, however the Truth is still the Truth, even if no one chooses to believe Him.
Shortly after the honeymoon, my new husband shared more about how his life had transformed, by a discovery and encounter he had with The Truth, which turned his world right-side-up, and helped form him into this real man which I now love so much. He showed me a “little book” titled, The Way home or face The Fire by JAH and shared how it made a massive impact on his life, which prompted me to read it also. What an enormous gift of LOVE and Truth this “little book” revealed to me. I had no idea that I was reading the Most Extraordinary book on the planet. Never had I heard so much Truth that was easy to read, understand and digest. I was overwhelmed and amazed, by all the answers to the questions I had had about my life, and the long awaited Truth of all things on Planet Earth; for a while it left me overwhelmed by this Love I was experiencing. It is now one of my favorite books, which I still read quite often, because I’ve discovered, that when you effectively apply the contents to your life, they start to turn your world right-side-up, as they have ours. This is something I freely share with other’s Beings as it has been proven to be THEKEY that unlocks the Scriptures, and has helped me immensely in my life, by correcting my way of thinking, concerning me and the upside-down world revolving around me every day.
Have you ever been told it’s not what you say that matters, but how you say it. Contrary to that; what you say does matter, which became apparent to me, as I was making amends for my wrongs against my husband, after being corrected by him. He was patient and kind most of the time with his authority, until I would try to emasculate his manhood. Then he would react with loving force to defend his authority. This would happen when I would try to give him advice (society’s influence of liberating women to be man’s equal, coming from Satan), which I didn’t realize, at the time, destroys the masculine instincts in a man to protect and provide, normally bringing out instead a man’s animal instincts, causing discord in the relationship. Instinctively, he would enforce his strong leadership boundaries against this advice, in defense of his spiritual masculinity. It seemed, at the time, that he was being too hard on me, but, looking back, now I am glad he was, and realize it was with loving force and for good reasons. So ladies, if you desire the love of a real man in your life, instead of domestic strife and violence, then it is your husband that you should be obeying, thereby obeying Christ and God first, through him. I would apologize sincerely, and express to him my determination to change that bad behavior, thus proving it is important what you say. My newly learned behaviors worked like magic, and I encourage all women to give them a try, when you are ready to learn How to Attract a Real Man. Acknowledging his leadership, I would ask my husband what to do with possessions I no longer needed. He would give me logical choices and encouragement, with which to make a good decision, allowing my input first, and then I depended on him to make the final decisions, knowing the man should Rule Over The Woman, and her desires shall be subject to her husband.
Men are better equipped to deal with stress than women, due to the fact the man was created in God’s image first, then woman was made out of the man’s rib, making her the weaker vessel. Good news is: if you start to make changes where you can, in your behaviors, then there is a better chance that a real man will seek you out and marry and protect you, so you can start learning and practicing these new behaviors and beliefs, with him. The Truth is my experience with this kind of LOVE is far better, and more satisfying, than any sex I have ever experienced in this lifetime.
On one occasion he showed me a visual teaching-example that helped me so much, that I want to share it with each of you, hoping you will remember it each time you look at your hand. He called it Divine Authority, a lesson I now realize was essential for me to learn, in order for love to guide our relationship. He demonstrated this by holding his hand thumb up, he said, “the thumb represents God (The Ruler of The Universe), the index finger represents Christ (pointing The Way), the middle one is the man (real man), the ring/marriage finger is the woman/help-meet, and the pinky finger representing Satan. When the man and woman are obeying the correct order of divine authority, their world is right-side-up, resulting in harmony, love and peace in marriage. Now turn your hand/world upside-down. When the woman gives advice to the man, instead of encouragement, Satan (which means The Opposer) is now on top influencing and controlling the woman. When the man listens to the woman’s advice, instead of Christ and God, like Adam did, and follows the woman, it causes him to relinquish his spiritual authority to the woman, thereby really to Satan, who is influencing and controlling the woman through her emotions, causing curses in the relationship, for being disobedient to God and Christ. Please notice God and Christ (real love) are now on the bottom and their spiritual blessing are left completely out in marriage.” This is the same scenario that resulted in Adam and Eve being expelled from The Garden of Eden, and is happening every day, to everyone, everywhere around the world.
Will we ever learn? Taking an honest look at the mess this planet is in, it is obvious we have not followed God’s guidance and Way, explaining why the world today is operating upside-down, full of all kinds of evil and corruption, which makes Father/God sad to see, because He LOVES each of us and is patiently waiting for you to ASK Him for His help.
The only way to correct the situation in the world, is for each of us to right the Divine Authority in our lives and relationships, starting with turning our thumbs up in our own lives, pointing to The Way to “How to Attract a Real Man” and become a spiritually feminine lady, thereby wearing his ring and taking his name, to become one flesh and his true help-meet, as it was meant to be, coming under the real man’s guidance, relinquishing society’s satanic teaching of women being men’s equal, and coming under God’s blessings. A great teaching about marriage can be found in “This is a Great Mystery: Marriage Guidance” by D.P. Grafton, Edited: Corrected and Supplemented by JAH. We highly recommend you read this and all the other links found here, for your own sake. Once the divine order is corrected, the man and woman begin to realize the divine blessings that Only God and Christ can bestow, creating harmony and love that flows freely. In my own experience this has become apparent over and over again, as we learn to follow God’s grace/serendipity in our daily lives.
God gave us the answers to our relationship difficulties, as we were in a major crisis up until the end of this year, helping us to resolve the issues and restore the harmony in our own relationship. As I look back on my life, I realize everything I have had to deal with has helped prepare me for these opportunities today, which are guiding and encouraging women to learn Women’s True Liberation. Our lives have been transformed so much for the better, due to all these changes. It is good to know God is always here, ready to guide, teach and lend that helping hand, when we trust and OBEY Him. He is our JOY and exceeding great reward.
In Closing: May we strongly suggest you choose wisely what you follow, knowing everyone has their own free-will to choose their path in life. Hopefully you will become like a pebble that is dropped in water, making an endless wave of love, acknowledging your spiritual life depends on it. We both believe these Truths come from Christ, our spiritual leader and guide, and His Word found in the Old Testament, New Testament and Holy Koran, found for Free reading in the King of kings’ Bible by JAH, and is the bedrock of our relationship. We also hope you will take the time to read and digest Lynn Paris’ book, How to Attract a Real Man, which helped us both, to learn how to create more love and boundaries in our relationship, accomplishing more balance, harmony and joy in our lives. Finally we hope you will turn your world right-side-up, if you have not already done so, by first establishing your relationship with God and Christ, as your authorities in all things, becoming spiritually feminine, or men spiritually masculine, relying on God and Christ Only, to provide all of your spiritual and material needs.
Those with any awareness, who have the courage to take an honest look at both their lives and the world in general, will hopefully come to the conclusion that something is dreadfully wrong. So why, with our finest intentions, do the best laid plans of “mice and men” always seem to go awry? What is the source of all this chaos and confusion? And what do we need to do to put an end to it?
This article focuses primarily on the marriage contract between God, Christ, man and woman; however it still applies to everyone in this prison-planet reform school for the criminally-insane. You may ask how it’s possible to so easily say we are all criminally insane with such conviction. Is the current state of the world, which is the cumulative result of our collective thoughts, words and actions, not proof enough? And isn’t the very same truth shared in the Old and New Covenants of the Bible, and in the correctly translated version of the Holy Koran (which have now, for the first time in human history, been combined and cross-referenced in The King of kings Bible)?
Isaiah 42:6 I the “I AM” have called thee in Righteousness, and will hold thine hand, and will keep thee, and give thee for a Covenant of the people, for a Light to the Gentiles; 42:7 To open the blind eyes, to bring out the prisoners from this prison [planet], [and] them that sit in darkness out of the prison house.
Luke 9:55 But he turned, and rebuked them, and said, Ye know not what kind of spirit ye are of (Rev. 12:7-9; Matt. 8:22).
Revelation 12:4 And his tale (of lies – John 8:35) drew the third part of the “Stars” (ch. 9:1) of heaven (into his army), and did (cause them to be) cast to the Earth (for their treason against God): and the dragon stood before the woman which was ready to be delivered, for to devour her child as soon as it was born (Christ – second coming).
12:7 And there was war in heaven: Michael and his angels fought against the dragon (Lucifer); and the dragon fought and his angels, 12:8 And prevailed not; neither was their place found any more in heaven. 12:9 And the great dragon was cast out, that old serpent, called the Devil, and Satan, which deceiveth the whole world: he was cast out to the earth, and his angels (you – Luke 9:55) were cast out with him (Matthew 25:41).
Matthew 25:41 Then shall he say also unto them on the left hand, Depart from me, ye cursed, into Everlasting Fire, prepared for the devil and his angels (YOU that do not DO God’s Will):
Sura 83:5. On a Mighty Day, 83:6. A Day when (all) mankind will stand before the Lord of the Worlds? 83:7. Nay! Surely the record of the wicked is (preserved) in their Prison Record. 83:8. And what will explain to thee what Prison Record is? 83:9. (There is) a Register (fully) inscribed.
Now before you are convinced by your ego (Satan really, who is behind it and feeds it) to stop reading, because you think you are already good (even though by our own admission we are all sinners), please consider the following verses:
Isaiah 64:6 But we are all as an unclean [thing], and all our righteousnesses [are] like filthy rags; and we all do fade as a leaf; and our inequities, like the wind, have taken us away.
Romans 3:10 As it is written (Ps. 53), There is none righteous, no not one:
3:11 There is none that understandeth, there is none that seeketh after God.
3:12 They are all gone out of The Way, they are together become unprofitable; there is none that doeth good, no not one.
If mankind can’t see by now the insanity in our thoughtless and selfish destruction of our relationships, each other and our own environmental life-support system, what will it take? Unfortunately, it appears the majority don’t see, or don’t want to see, that the situation is constantly worsening rather than getting better. Logically, the only way we can start to put things right, according to God and His Christ, is for each of us to do an about-face and change for the better from within. If everyone did that, the entire world would immediately start getting better; but everyone has to do it, because one bad apple will spoil the barrel.
So where did all of this confusion start? Why has this steady digression continued for so long (2 Thess. 2:3), undetected by most (Eph. 5:14)? And how do we correct the situation, before it’s too late? To begin with we must go back to the Garden of Eden, specifically to when God told Adam and Eve that they were allowed to eat from any tree there except one: the “tree” of the knowledge of good (Truth) and evil (lies).
Genesis 2:16 And the “I AM” God COMMANDED the man, saying, Of every tree of the garden thou mayest freely eat: 2:17 But of the tree of the knowledge of good (Truth) and evil (lies), thou shalt not eat of it: for in the day that thou eatest thereof thou shalt surely die (in confusion).
The “tree” God was speaking of wasn’t necessarily a physical tree; it was symbolic of us, and our basic belief system. A physical tree has a root-system that holds it in place and draws the nutrients it needs from the surrounding soil, which then flow through its trunk and branches to its leaves and fruit (Matt. 3:8-10; 7:16-20). The better its energy source (soil) is, the healthier the tree, the more sheltering its leaves, and the better its fruit. A tree that lacks good soil cannot produce good fruit, and will eventually wither and die.
Matthew 3:8 Bring forth therefore fruits meet for repentance: 3:9 And think not to say within yourselves, We have Abraham to [our] father: for I say unto you, that God is able of these stones to raise up children unto Abraham. 3:10 And now also the axe is laid unto the root of the (family) trees: therefore every (family) tree which bringeth not forth good fruit is hewn down, and cast into The Fire.
7:16 Ye shall know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes of thorns, or figs of thistles? 7:17 Even so every good tree bringeth forth good fruit; but a corrupt tree bringeth forth evil fruit. 7:18 A good tree cannot bring forth evil fruit, neither [can] a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit. 7:19 Every tree that bringeth not forth good fruit is hewn down, and cast into The Fire.
7:20 Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them.
In the Garden of Eden, God wanted us to mentally eat (learn) from ONLY the “tree” of the knowledge of good/God (defined by His Life-Giving Ways and Commands), to protect and shelter us from evil. You are (both physically and mentally) what you eat. God knew that if Satan ever conned us into eating from the “tree” of the knowledge of good (Truth/God) AND evil (lies – the word Devil, from which evil comes, means liar), we would die in our confusion, both physically and eventually spiritually as well, on the Last Day.
Logically, if we were all following God’s Ways and doing His Will, the world should be getting better, right? But clearly it isn’t; it’s getting worse and more evil by the day, if not by the hour and minute. So what is the answer, and how do we put an end to all of this evil and unnecessary conflict and destruction in our lives?
In the simplest terms, we need to get right with God, through repentance and atonement. This requires a much more serious and permanent act of repentance than just “opening your heart to Jesus”, and then going back to our same old destructive ways. It means a complete remaking of our character and ways in God’s Image, and that can only be accomplished with God and Christ’s help and constant guidance. If we want to become Christ’s adopted children, then we need to learn to obey and serve Him only, just like He obeys and serves His Father in Heaven (“I came down from heaven, not to do mine own will, but the Will of Him that sent me” – John 6:38).
It is obedience to God that prevents us from harming one another, our natural environment and/or ourselves. This is the basic, universal principle throughout Creation—treating everyone and everything with the love and respect we would similarly want and expect—so why are we not following it? An honest look at the state of the world today proves we aren’t doing this, or this world would already be heaven on Earth.
What our heavenly Father (Matt. 6:9) has shown us through our experiences is that this subtle but constant twisting of our beliefs by Satan is the cause of all our problems. Satan mixes his lies with a bit of the truth to deceive us into thinking what’s good is somehow evil and what’s evil is somehow good, until we no longer know the difference between right and wrong (Isaiah 5:20-21).
In our marital lives this has been brought about in many subtle and not-so-subtle ways, but by far the most overt satanic twisting has been the liberal, modern-day belief that men and women are somehow equal; a belief clearly unsupported by, and at odds with, Scripture. Father gave us His divine order of authority in the Bible, and He always tells us the truth, to keep us on the right path to Him.
1 Corinthians 11:3 But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman [is] the man; and the head of Christ [is] God.
The difficulty is we don’t listen, and then wonder why things keep going wrong. Believing anything else (if it didn’t come from God, then it’s a lie) only causes disharmony, conflict, resentment and eventual divorce (destruction) in our marriages, as divine justice for listening to Satan again. Satan’s modus operandi has always been to divide and conquer, a tactic he ceaselessly employs at every level and inside every household.
Since what is falsely called “women’s liberation” is based on such an obvious lie—that men and women are supposedly equal—it can never bring peace, joy, harmony and the love we so desire. The Bible clearly states in Genesis 2:22, that the woman was created from man, to be his helper NOT his equal, so why are we surprised when this self-made satanic battle of the sexes wreaks so much havoc and destruction in our daily lives? Is there divine marriage guidance available?
In the Garden of Eden, when Eve separated herself from Adam to listen to the liar (Satan), she broke her connection through Adam with Christ and God. This began the fall from God’s good graces. Eve then compounded her “original sin” by using her sex appeal to trick Adam into believing the lie and disobeying God too, which led to them both being cast out from the Garden of Eden.
What Eve did by disobeying Adam, who was walking WITH God and told her the truth for her own good—is to invite the liar/destroyer (Satan) into their lives. When Eve chose to believe the liar and then “advised” Adam to do the same, she usurped the man’s God-given and Christ-guided authority. This practice of women going against the divine order of things has been happening ever since, everywhere on Earth, each and every day for the last 6,000 years, causing all of this unnecessary labour, chaos, conflict, death and destruction. There’s really only one way to make this stop:
1 Timothy 2:11 Let the woman learn in SILENCE with all subjection.
2:12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to USURP authority over the man, but TO BE IN SILENCE.
The man too was in the wrong, for loving the woman more than God, which is what allowed her to feed him the lie. Loving anyone or anything more than God is breaking the First Commandment, upon which all the others hang. Both men and women need to learn to accept the roles and responsibilities God gave us, so that we are able to help one another along The Way that leads us back home, to heaven.
When a woman claims she is equal to a man she is, in fact, thinking she is his superior, and should be telling him what to do. How could a spirit-Being that’s been intentionally placed in a smaller, less powerful human body, which can so easily be swayed from reason by emotions, actually think that the body they are using is somehow equal to a male body? God does everything for a very good reason, which is always for the best of everyone. His creation of male and female bodies is certainly no exception.
A woman usurping a man’s God-given authority, by giving him her/Satan’s advice (just as Eve did to Adam) is what creates disharmony, division and conflict in the marital relationship. Just as a ship can have only one captain, a family can only have one spiritual leader, which God has made clear needs to be the man (Gen. 3:16). A good first-mate is invaluable to the captain; but a first-mate trying to take control of the ship is a threat to both the mission and the safety of the ship and all aboard. There’s a reason why mutiny is, or at least used to be, a capital offence; a breakdown in the chain of command can be fatal. The same holds true for marriage.
Marriage is like a ship/vessel, taking the couple and their family on a voyage through the “sea” (Isa. 17:12-13) of life here on Earth. If the captain steers the ship on its proper course toward Christ and Father (God), and everyone on the ship works together by doing their assigned duties, they will eventually arrive safely at their desired destination. It doesn’t mean there won’t be storms along The Way; only that each crew member will be given the tools and means needed to complete their tasks, as long as they stay the course (faith). The story of Noah’s Ark exemplifies this.
Together, the stories of both Adam & Eve and Noah’s Ark provide us with a further lesson of Father’s divine, natural order (which never comes from chaos). According to Father, men are closer to Christ than women, just as Christ is closer to Father (God) than men. Women are therefore closer to Satan than men, which should explain why Satan chose Eve to do his dirty work.
Eve listened to the serpent/devil/liar/destroyer, and then advised Adam to do the same, which, unsurprisingly, culminated in their banishment from the Garden of Eden (Gen. 3:17). On the other hand, Noah’s wife and family listened to Noah, who did all that God commanded him to do (Gen. 6:22, 7:5), and they were saved. Isn’t it time we learned this simple lesson and applied it to our daily lives and marriages, so we too can experience the love, peace, freedom, joy, safety and security that can only come from God-guided lives?
Isn’t that the love and respect (from Father) we all so desperately crave?
Whenever we try to be something we are not, we find ourselves at odds with ourselves and others, and our natural surroundings and Creator. Men should be men, setting the correct example of striving to be Christ-like by battling injustice, oppression and dishonesty everywhere they find it, beginning with themselves and in their own houses, ruling them gently but firmly (Gen. 3:16). Women should be women: submissive, feminine and learning to be more helpful, nurturing, and encouraging. Willingly and joyfully accepting the roles we’ve been given is The Key to experiencing true love.
Think of all of the heartache and pain, broken homes and shattered lives that have been caused by the satanic reversal of the divine, natural order. Men and women working against each other, and against Christ and Father will never bring anything but misery and destruction, whereas men and women working together WITH Christ and Father, for the greater, common good—as we’ve been COMMANDED to do—is The Way to true freedom, Life and the joy of spiritual growth and attainment (Deut. 30:15-20).
When will we learn to stop repeating the mistakes of the past? Einstein is quoted as having said: “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, and expecting different results”. Isn’t that exactly what we’ve been doing for the past 6000 years, repeating the “original sin” in the Garden of Eden, with everyone habitually doing things their own, selfish way instead of God’s Way (Deut. 12:8)? God’s Way is GOOD, so why not choose His Way, which leads to Life (Deut. 30:15-20)? Our destructive, selfish ways (Satan’s really) are EVIL, and are the source of ALL confusion and conflict in the world today, which is leading to WW3, Armageddon and then Eternity in The Fire on the Last Day.
So how do we come to receive God’s blessing in our marriages, and reverse the fall from Grace? The simplest answer is to return to The Law, found in the first five books of the Bible (namely Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers and Deuteronomy), exactly as Christ instructed (Matt. 5:17-20). There is also a beautiful passage found in the Gospel according to Philip, which was wrongly removed from the Bible, but has been reinstated in the King of kings’ Bible, where it tells us the man is to take the woman back into him again.
Excerpt from Philip’s Gospel: When Eve was in Adam there was no death; but when she was separated from him death came into being. If she go in again, and he take her to himself, death will no longer exist. For this reason a man and woman will leave their parents and cleave one (the woman) to the other (the man) becoming one flesh.
While this may sound a little esoteric, it’s really quite simple, and possibly best explained by a proverb from the film The Silent Flute: “tie two birds together, and although they have four wings, they cannot fly”. The reason the two birds cannot fly, even though they are connected, is because they are both trying to fly in different directions. A husband and wife are to be one flesh, so they can learn to be of ONE MIND (united to do God’s Will) instead of working against each other.
A further excerpt from the Philip’s Gospel: She or he who loves anyone or anything more than me and being part of me (Christ) and allows them, or it, to come in between is unworthy of me and will die.
If the woman had not separated from the man, and had not gone apart from him to talk to Satan, deciding to believe Satan in preference to God, thereby calling God the liar, she would not die with and have caused the man to die. His separation through worshipping the woman first rather than God became the beginning of death. Because of this Christ came, in order that he might remove the separation which was from the beginning, and again unite the two; and that he might give life to those who died in the separation, and unite them (in serving God). But the woman is united to the man in the “Bridal Chamber”. Only those who have united in “The Bridal Chamber” (of God) will no longer be separated. Because of this Eve separated from Adam, because she was not united to him in the “Bridal Chamber” of God, and went to serve Satan in his world where he comes between man and woman and between both of them and God.
The bridal chamber is where the bridegroom and his bride lovingly and physically unite to consummate their marriage. In that moment there is no separation; only the love for each other that cannot help but bring joy. They are one flesh; at one with each other.
Each has their assigned roles, which are meant to complement each other. The bridegroom is to love and protect, lead and guide, both by word and example, drawing his bride with him toward Christ and God. The bride is to love and obey, nurture and care for him and his children, and to encourage the bridegroom as He strives to become more Christ-like.
For this to work as Father intended, the woman must stop giving advice, which often-times is satanic (whether she realizes it or not – remember, it was Eve who was first deceived), and the bridegroom must stop taking womanly advice (as Adam did), or they are both right back in The Garden listening to the devil and eating the same old apple again.
The man must instead ceaselessly rely on the Holy Spirit for guidance (1 Thess. 5:17), showing him what Christ would say and/or do in every situation and with every decision. As Christ is The Law made flesh, The Law provides every man with the expressed, written Commandments of Father, so there is no debate or dispute over what is right and wrong. Only in this way can the fall of Adam (man) be reversed, so that he may draw both himself and the woman closer to God (James 4:8).
If the man is truly striving to follow God and Christ, then grace enters into the relationship, and, if the woman obeys him, peace and harmony naturally follow. A loving, obedient woman is a treasure beyond price (Proverbs 31:10, 30, Wisdom 7:19, 26:15).
In Scripture, the bridegroom is the Lamb (Rev. 21:9), Who was willing to and did give His Life for His Bride (the “Elect” – Rev. 14:1-4). The Bride should therefore be readying herself for her wedding day, i.e. His Second Coming (Matt. 25:1-13) by diligently searching for The Scriptural Marks of Christ (the Truth – John 14:6) with all of our heart, mind, soul and strength (Jer. 29:13) to purify ourselves. That’s why any marriage between a man and a woman that is not based upon these basic, universal principles of love, discipline, obedience and respect is doomed, because it isn’t preparing us for the real Bridal Chamber of God; where we are all united with Christ to do Father’s Will ONLY, by selflessly serving the common good as Christ did and always does.
All other paths lead to The Fire.
Proof of the veracity of these statements may be found in the current conditions in this lunatic asylum, where people seem to enjoy hurting one another even, if not especially, within marriages, most of which now needlessly end in divorce for selfish, satanic reasons. If your ego/self stings a little right now, that feeling is the Truth burning out the lie that Satan placed there (that we can continue to keep doing the same things over and over again and expect it to turn out differently).
Matthew 3:10 And now also the axe is laid unto the root of the trees: therefore every tree which bringeth not forth good fruit is hewn down, and cast into The Fire.
If, as a spirit-Being currently locked inside a female body, you are looking for a man that will serve you, you will continue to find yourself in dead-end relationships with cowardly, Godless men. Learn How to Attract a Real Man and then learn to follow that man, who is striving to be humble, like Christ. The humbling of our “selves” is what makes it possible to hear Father’s small, still voice of reason.
Once we start to listen and do as instructed, Father begins to show us marvelous spiritual insights that we could never have been made aware of otherwise. It’s a magical mystery tour with Him at the wheel, so you never know where it may take you (John 3:8). Burdens will be lifted (Matt. 11:28-29). Doors will be opened (Matt. 7:7-8). Paths will be cleared and illuminated (Psalm 119:105).
There is no other way to be a truly liberated woman. Free from worldly opinions, pitfalls and limitations (Matt. 6:24, James 4:4). Free to humbly pursue one’s unique, God-given talents. Free to build a loving and lasting relationship with a real man who is humbly fighting against the evil and injustice that threatens us all today. Free to experience true Love, that can only come from the source of all Love: Father.
Mark 12:30 And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength and serve Him ONLY: this [is] the first COMMANDment.
Matthew 6:33 But seek ye FIRST the Kingdom of God, and His Righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
If someone tells you that they love you, but they don’t know and love God, the source of all love, they are lying to you and to themself. What they are offering you is eternal love’s counterfeit – Satan’s fleeting human emotion. They cannot give you what they do not have – love/God inside of them. They can only love you, if their cup of God’s love overflows to you to quench your thirst for love.
Think about it.
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Is it true a Real Man desires a beautiful woman? What is a beautiful woman by modern standards, (head of the relationship, bossy, independent, displays lasciviousness) and is that really what men want? Truth is a real man desires a woman who can make his world beautiful, and that ONLY happens when she becomes a spiritually feminine lady, who allows her husband/real man to be the leader of their relationship. Today people ask me, “How do you describe a Real Man?” Below you will find a description of my real man. The next question they ask is, “How does a man become a real man?” Only God knows the answers to that question, because it is only through a divine relationship with Him that He creates a Real Man.
When I first met my knight in shining armor I could tell he was not “one of the good old boys.” he carried the sword of Truth with him at all times, which he used most days. I quickly found out he had principles, displayed honor and respect for others, for the most part, and their possessions, which he still possesses today. Real men fight with their will and determination and they pick women who are feminine and support them in their fight against evil. They are creative and get to know Father telepathically and learn to listen and obey what He tells them to do. They take only what they need and are not interested in material wealth, but in spiritual growth (Matt. 6:24). Real men never lie, they mean what they say and say what they mean never going back on their word even when it becomes difficult to keep, they still follow through. My knight does not claim to be physically strong or intelligent, he just goes out 6 days a week wearing his shield and taking his sword to fight the dragons in high places, on this hellish planet called Earth. He is not puffed up with big muscles, nor arrogantly focusing on what he looks like physically. My knight today is the protector and sole provider for me, and his family, and he takes good care of all our needs and the animals he has been entrusted with. He will defend us in self-defense when necessary. He is not a bully, using his fists, but deals with problems in a calm and logical manner. His continual examples of love and compassion for others attracted me to him. Because of these characteristics I felt I could trust him with my life. In fact one day early on in our marriage we were working for another carpenter friend of his and the man turned to me in the conversation of marriage and said, “You have trusted him with your life.” I agreed and today I am so glad I listened to that lovely sweet soft voice inside me wooing me to come this way, for the way of true love and harmony that I was seeking, I have found through this relationship.
My knight guides me gently back to my Creator Who has the power to change me, as well as all of us here, because He created each one of us and knows just what we ALL need, and when we need it. He is always drawing me closer to him by kindly encouraging me to do what is right for me, and everyone else involved. This kind of Love makes it easier for me to do what he asks, rather than a man who is harsh and demanding, who has to be right all the time, but doesn’t practice what he preaches. My knight kindly suggested I let him supply all my needs, therefore encouraging me to stop practicing/selling vanity as my business. Vanity, I believe, is partly responsible for the mess the world is in today. He often reminds me, that, “the whole world is upside down, worshipping satan through the woman.” This helped turn my world right side up, finding the way to my rightful position worshipping God through the man. Now I practice being his help-meet, just as my Creator intended. I find that in following this path my Creator guided me to fall in love with my real man, his sword, shield and The Truth that he follows.
Don’t get me wrong, he’s also physically nice to look at and talented, but the whole package is what I desire. Early on he gained my respect, due to the fact he did not play into the hands of his women clients who flirted with him. He was always kind, and sometimes found it necessary to direct the conversation elsewhere, in those situations which helped give me faith in his relationship capabilities. This kind of Love helped to break through the walls of hurt and distrust I had developed from previous dysfunctional relationships. Like these, he has many skills most men only dream of acquiring, which makes him very attractive to most women these days, because they selfishly want a man for what he can give them, not for the man’s values. He could have had most any woman, but because of his beliefs and faith in God he chose a woman who could make his world spiritually beautiful, not one who is just beautiful to look at. It is a dream come true to have this courageous sword swinging man as my husband. He has had many a woman tempt him before and also since our marriage, but he is always true to us and has never committed adultery or fornication since we signed our Holy Marriage Contract with God. He also shared that the eight years prior to our relationship he remained celibate which further strengthened my trust in him, and helped me to start overcoming my destructive jealousy. He helps me achieve things like this site to connect with others. Most of the time it feels like I am in a fairy-tale and the dream has come true to life.
Today it is apparent that my knight knew what he wanted and picked me for my beliefs, which he hoped would make his world more beautiful. I’ve always wanted a man to love me for who I really was and not for my looks, but I did not know how to attract that kind of man. Thank goodness all that has changed today, and I am loved by my knight in shining armor, because of his beliefs in building a better world. It has been said that opposites attract, he being masculine in nature likes for me to be his feminine polar opposite. For example, long soft flowing hair as my covering, being sensitive and caring, always nurturing, and a good care-giver of his physical needs.
From the first time he came to my home he guided our romance with “strong steel boundaries – no sex before marriage.” We believe that sex is spiritually uniting within the bonds of the marriage contract, becoming one flesh, and if sex happens before God is invited in, through the taking of vows, the man ends up following satan through the woman making their whole world operate upside down. Because he used his sword and shield, he extinguished the red dragon’sfiery darts of lust and sin that would have destroyed our loving relationship, causing our relationship to be based on lust. I used to think that more sex was the way to a man’s heart, however I have learned the way to a real man’s heart is through giving him Real Love. Clearly he does not desire lust/sex and it is a big turn OFF to him. Actually he desires the opposite, which is Real Love. I have found this kind of Love is much more fulfilling than sex. He desires to make an “Out of This World” experience when our two bodies and souls join unselfishly, always putting the others needs first, wanting only to please and asking nothing in return. Our act of making love becomes the nearest thing to “Heaven on Earth” I have ever experienced. It has been said love-making could be this way and now I can honestly tell you it can be.
We grow a garden, which helps us grow together. We love the fresh vegetables, because they just taste better and we know they are much healthier for us. The time we spend together in the garden has proved to be a rewarding experience. We see nature transpiring, and becoming full of life. The garden reminds us of our relationship, as it grows it shows sign of magical wonders producing sweet sensations to enjoy and nourish us as well as others. While sharing our day over a hot home-cooked meal, I jump at the chance to tell him everything that happened to me that day, listening for guidance in his humble words of direction. Keeping our home and clothes clean and mended, making sure there is a warm inviting atmosphere when he returns home, are ways I show my gratitude. He shows appreciation for the labor of love by verbally thanking me for cooking and cleaning and helping him with the chores of our animals around the ranch. After all he has been fighting the fire-breathing dragon all day, and he just wants to come home where he is loved, appreciated, and respected. I try to show him I appreciate him by verbally thanking him for all his hard work each day, and putting healthy food on our table.
By no means is he perfect, he still has his ego/self to overcome daily, as we all do. Neither are we claiming to know anything about relationships, we still have occasional discord when either of us becomes overcome with one’s selfishness. Yet the episodes are less frequent as love abounds. It is our hope that each couple will find their harmony with the guidance of their Creator, as we have. If we have shared anything here of any use or value, we give credit to our Father in Heaven, for He is the Only One Good and is Love; which makes the world go round.
A real man is one who follows morality and aspires to these characteristics, puts other people’s needs before his own. He is his family’s protector/provider, never lies, does not commit fornication or adultery, respects others and their property, and follows Truth, always striving to point others to that path. When he fails he gets back up and rights his shield and takes the sword of Truth in hand once again to battle the red dragon’s tail of lies, using God’s Royal Laws of Liberty, Commandments and his determination. My role is cheering him on saying, “Honey, Go, Fight, Win this race called Life”, encouraging him on his path towards learning how to be good. Perhaps you’ve heard it said, “Behind every good man there is a relatively good woman”, my place is to take good care of him, and encourage him to fight evil in the world. By doing so I am learning how to become a perfect lady, wife and mom, which is Women’s True Liberation, having found my path towards home, Falling in Love with a Real Man. By following this path my Creator has designed for me, I can earn the right to become a man the correct way, not the way the world teaches by becoming a man while still in a woman’s body (bread winner, competitive, bossy, independent, etc.), before having earned it. My hope is you will come and join me here, and discover your divine purpose, as God intended it to be, thereby making your man’s world a beautiful place to be.
What follows is a personal life experience, shared in the spirit of friendship and in the hope of helping others avoid similar pitfalls to achieve true joy.
This story begins in a typical, middle class family with three children. My mom was “religious” and took us from our dad, so she could be closer to her dad, and in doing so sent our whole family down an unhappy path. My dad, instead of taking responsibility and exercising his God-given authority over her demands to break-up our family, allowed her to lead the marriage. The consequences of my dad’s cowardice and my mom’s disobedience and selfish choices for our family eventually led to my mom being formally diagnosed as mentally ill (schizophrenic and manic depressed).
She played the blame game. It was always someone else’s fault, never hers. Placing the blame on us led her to abusing us both physically and mentally. That in turn led to my mom to believe we were devil-possessed, while ignoring her own penchant for listening to the bad voices inside her own head.
My dad coped with this insane nightmare by drinking alcohol and working all the time. We spent very little time with my dad because mother was jealous of us having a good relationship with him. Today I believe everything happens for a reason, and can be for the greater good if it is viewed from a spiritual perspective. The same certainly applies to the upbringing personally experienced.
It was an unhappy situation always feeling like the odd one out, with my mom showing favoritism toward my older sister and dad doing the same with with my younger sister. In a desperate attempt to escape my home life, lust took over and I became pregnant and married to a selfish man who would not provide for nor protect me or his son. Unbeknownst to me, I drove him into the arms of other women with my possessive jealousy, mistaken to be love. This behavior had attracted a man who was a thief, drug user and drug dealing, addicted to sex, and verbally and physically abusive to me and his son. All of this hurt all of us deeply. Again desperate for help, I was baptized into the church and became religious, seeking God and the answers to why the marriage was failing. With those religious teachings in hand I decided my husband was the problem, so I divorced him.
Still looking for love, in all the wrong places with all the wrong character defects, it wasn’t long before getting married again. I remained in that unhappy marriage for 29 years. The way the misery was coped with was by drinking and becoming a career-minded workaholic in the beauty industry, while learning how to “wear the pants in the relationship”. Over the next 23 years hundreds of women shared similar stories of failed marriages that for reasons that sounded all too familiar. Clearly this type of self-serving behavior was destroying the family unit. These women divorced their husbands and would almost always take the children, only to remarry again and end up once again in an unhappy situation. This common, recurring theme made it easy to feel victimized, blaming others for my personal choices just like my mom had done.
Society had taught me to be a woman’s lib fan (a man hater who acts like a man). And the emphasis on being an independent woman turned out to be a curse rather than a blessing, because it could never attract a God-fearing man who naturally commanded the authority, leadership and respect that engenders obedience. It’s easy to be deceived into thinking you’ve got it all together and can take care of yourse’f when your’e running a successful business, going church al the time and attending Al-anon. Truth was it all added up to an even more unhappy relationship because it was all a lie that was destined to eventually fail. And that’s exactly what happened, as hope dwindled and that marriage also ended in divorce.
Less than a year later the cycle repeated itself with another engagement to another man addicted to sex and porn. Counseling at church provided little to no results. Fortunately God had mercy on me and helped me rise above the insanity for a moment and call off the engagement.
So, after two painful divorces and a failed engagement, I came to the realization I could not attract a man who would love me the way love should be without doing something different. It was painfully obvious my approach and priorities needed to change. The only way to attract a husband who was striving to be Christ-like was to learn to be submissive rather than “independent”.
By this time I was emotionally spent and not interested in another relationship. Realizing that I WAS THE PROBLEM changed everything. If you are hoping to attract a truly masculine man who is following Christ’s example, you need to become a truly feminine woman. The alternative was to continue emasculating men which wasn’t working for me because that approach can never attract a real man. And worse than that, it was hampering my spiritual growth. Determined to find a solution, I turned to my Creator earnestly in prayer and laid the whole problem before Him, so He could teach and guide me.
Shortly after this I went to work part time for a women named Debra, who kept insisting I meet her contractor named Mark. She would show me pictures of him and she told me things about him like he would not work on Saturday and if he did anything on that day he did not charge for it. This rang a bell with me and sparked just enough interest to allow her to give him my phone number. He did not call right away as she said he always did and she became worried. I would ask her “please don’t worry, if he doesn’t call back it is not meant to be”.
God doesn’t waste any time when He knows you are ready and I was ready for good change. The first call came and I kindly informed MarkI did not wish to waste his time nor mine on a relationship that would not work so first things first. I kindly ask him about his relationship with Christ. Complete silence fell on the other end of the phone. I thought I had lost him, and then he gave a logical clear answer, with out going into details: Christ was the most important relationship in his life. That sounded good but now I was looking for proof of that which did not take long as he lead the relationship with healthy boundaries and we were soon married in the Bridal Chamber.
After being married to this real man I found genuine lessons, that really changed things for the better like this extraordinary little book entitled “How To Attract A Real Man” This book has given me new ways to view relationships and new things to put into practice which have helped our marriage all the more. It is highly recommended that all ladies read this treasured book full of God’s Wisdom.
In conclusion: Through the techniques used throughout this amazing little book you can live a liberated life, just as our Creator has intended for us to live. This is the ONLY way I have found that actually works. And it can help you too, if you’re ready to make a change for the better.